About

A quiet, sensual closing to the year. During this evening desire can unfold in its own rhythm, held in a space that invites depth rather than spectacle.

We begin with an intimate rope demo by Vagevuur & Morwen, setting the tone for the night: grounded, attentive, and rich in presence. Afterward, the studio opens into a non guided and open spacious playground — five suspension points (including two bamboos), a fully equipped tool rack, and corners shaped for softness, floor work, stillness, or slow exploration.

An evening to land. To release. To finish the year through touch, attention, and embodied connection.

Discover

The night unfolds in two parts:

• A contemplative rope demo
  A quiet invitation into tension, intention, and the subtle dialogue between rigger and bottom.

followed by

• Open studio for self-led play
  Once the demo closes, the space becomes yours to explore:
  • 5 suspension points, including 2 bamboos
  • A tool rack with selected accessories (Incl 6 studio ropes)
  • Corners for softness, floorwork, improvisation, or quiet intimacy
  • Stations such as a four-poster bed and a cage for those drawn to different textures of play

Throughout the evening, Vagevuur & Morwen are present for light guidance or a moment of connection. Drinks are served until 20:30; afterwards, the bar becomes self-service. A night shaped by your own pace, your own desires, your own dynamic.

Play Etiquette & Safety

Move with awareness of your surroundings and maintain explicit, enthusiastic consent at all times. Vagevuur & Morwen will be present throughout the night to hold the space, support consent culture, and safety. They may check in regarding skill level, intensity, or risk awareness, this is part of keeping the container conscious. During the evening erotic play, including genital penetration is welcome.

If you need support, want to signal something, or feel unsure, please reach out to them. They’re here for you.

Flow of the evening

19:00 — Doors open
19:30 — Doors close
19:45 — Opening rope demo
20:30 — Studio opens for free play
00:00 — Close of night

The Hosts:

Vagevuur — Rope Artist & Teacher

Vagevuur is an Antwerp-based rope switch who entered shibari through a search for softness and release from chronic tension. Beginning as a rope bottom, she grew into tying through self-tying and intuitive exploration. Her style is rooted in presence, attunement, and precise technique, informed by continual learning, labbing, and time spent in ropes herself. Rope jams remain her favourite environment to observe, play, and refine her craft.

Morwen — Rope Model

With nearly two decades of kink experience, Morwen brings a deeply embodied bottoming perspective. In the meeting point between playfulness and surrender, she finds grounding and connection. Sensitive to nuance, she reads energy with ease and responds with intention. She offers insight into what it means to be held, moved, and met in rope, an invitation to approach tension with awareness and care.

For who

For couples and duos who seek an evening of embodied exploration without instruction, a space where your dynamic leads, and the environment simply holds.

• For those who appreciate spaciousness, subtlety, and conscious play.
• For those curious to meet rope, each other, or themselves through sensation rather than performance.
• For anyone drawn to a refined, sensual container where presence matters more than spectacle.

To keep the atmosphere intimate, the evening is limited to 10 couples without pre selection.

Dresscode

The evening’s aesthetic is sensual, sleek, and softly luxurious. Think silk, sheer textures, mesh, layered pieces, and chic minimalism. Fabrics that glide on the skin and move with your body. The loft has floor heating, so we encourage guests to arrive in layers you can comfortably shift in and out of as the night evolves

The bathroom is available for anyone who wishes to adjust their outfit once inside.

After the demo, as the play space opens, we invite guests to shed a few layers. This collective transition helps the space shift naturally into a more playful & sensual atmosphere. Choose what feels good for your body: more revealing outfits, lingerie, or partial nudity are welcome within the event’s boundaries.

Female-Identifying Inspiration

• Silk slips, satin camisoles, sheer skirts
• Mesh dresses, lace layers, flowing robes
• Lingerie sets, bodysuits, garters, stockings
• Satin shorts, soft bralettes, or going topless if comfortable

Male-Identifying Inspiration

• Linen or soft drawstring pants
• Open shirts, mesh tops, fitted tanks
• Silk boxers, lounge shorts, harnesses
• Robes, layered neutrals, or bare chest

Gender-Expansive Inspiration

• Sarongs, wraps, robes, soft flowing layers
• Bodysuits, mesh tops, layered lingerie
• Harnesses, sheer pants, minimalistic chic pieces
• Anything that supports your embodied, authentic expression

Please avoid:

• Jeans or other stiff fabrics
• Business attire
• Outdoor clothing
• Items with large logos or harsh materials

Arrive soft & sensual
shift into bold, playful & embodied
as the night unfolds.

FAQ

What type of space is this?

This is a kink- and sex-positive environment where desire, intimacy, and erotic exploration are welcomed with respect and awareness. All play must be fully consensual and be communicated clearly. Guests are expected to uphold a culture of consent, autonomy, and mutual care throughout the night.

Who can attend?

This party is couples only (21+).
We welcome all duos: romantic couples, queer pairings, play partners, and non-binary constellations, as long as you attend as a pair. Singles are not admitted to this event.

Is this a swingers event?

No. The intention is not group sex, escalation, or erotic exhibitionism. Cross-play with another duo is welcome only when mutual, clearly communicated, and aligned with your dynamic. The focus is on conscious kink, intimate exploration, and shared erotic presence, not swapping.

Is the evening guided?

No. There are no instructions, no assignments, no facilitated exercises. This night is designed for pairs who are confident navigating communication, boundaries, negotiation, and risk independently. 

Do I need experience to attend?

No. Experience isn’t required; what matters most is clear communication, shared consent, and an attuned, aware approach to play.

What is a play salon?

A play salon is a quieter form of play party, intimate, attuned, and rooted in awareness. You shape your own play, while the space holds you with clarity and calm.

Can I take photos?

Photography is not allowed during the evening.

Is there a designated smoking area?

Yes, there’s an outdoor patio attached to the loft where smoking is permitted. This allows guests to step out for air without leaving the event space.

What if I need to step outside the building?

We ask guests not to go outside unless it’s truly necessary. If you must leave the building and wish to return, please notify a SPNKD team member beforehand. There is no front door access, so someone from the team will need to let you back inside.

Is there a changing room?

Yes. A bathroom functions as a changing area and will be available for all guests.

Is there parking nearby?

Yes. Paid parking PIDPA is available within an 8-minute walk of the venue.

I didn’t get my confirmation email. What should I do?

Please check your spam folder, the confirmation includes the address and event details.

Last-minute questions?

Email us at info@spnkd.com and our team will get back to you promptly.