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CLUB SPNKD × DIVE brings adult play and 360° immersion together in one night. An evening where adults reconnect with their own desire through guided vocals, a techno-trance DJ line-up and the kind of human contact that screens simply can’t replicate.
An experience where dance becomes ritual, eroticism becomes atmosphere, and consent becomes the foundation.
Dance. Connect. Play. Explore.

Doors open at 20u & close at 20u45
Starts at 21u until 23u40
The night opens gently. Guided vocals by Paul, a techno trance set by Aljaa, and 360° projection work together to draw you out of the outside world and into a shared rhythm. This is the warm-up, unhurried, deliberate, designed to land you fully in your body before anything else begins.
Never tried ropes? Our in-house rope artist Vagevuur is offering a limited number of taster sessions inside the play space. First come, first served – spots are limited and secured through the consent & boundaries form -> SOLD OUT
Two practitioners. Two offerings. One evening. Bas and Sara are massage therapist, bodyworker, and partners and this evening, they each open a private space inside the play space for a small number of guests.
Bas – Sensual Massage A grounded, intentional full-body experience. Bas works with presence, relaxation, and the slow, deliberate awakening of sensation. Nothing rushed. Nothing performed. Just touch, and what it opens.
Sara – Sensory Massage A playful exploration of the senses. Sara moves between textures and touch to heighten awareness and deepen embodiment; curious, attentive, alive to your responses.
You choose one practitioner when you submit your form. Spots are limited and secured on a first come, first served basis. Complete the consent & boundaries form below to apply. Selected guests receive a confirmation email with their time slot. On the night, go to the bar upon arrival; your bracelet will be there waiting. From that moment, the experience is yours. -> SOLD OUT
From 23u40 – 02u00 (Play spaces open at 00u00)
AD7USTMEN takes the decks. The energy builds, the tempo shifts, and the play spaces open. You choose how you engage, dance, witness, connect, or play. Eroticism is in the atmosphere. Never an expectation.
The Play Spaces: Duos only. Consent and boundaries discussed before entering. Our SPNKD angels are present at every space.
The Gym – The kind of space where effort is the point. To your left as you enter the hall, The Gym is outfitted with old-school gym equipment; reimagined as the architecture of play. What you do with it is between you and whoever you enter with.
The Office – A desk. A chair. The familiar geometry of authority and obedience. The Office is a play space dressed in the aesthetics of professional life – desk, massage chair, the faint suggestion of rules. Power dynamics have always lived here. Tonight, you decide who holds them.
The Savoir Temple – Open to all individuals, not reserved for duos or couples. No genital touch. No genital nudity. Undress to your own comfort. By entering, you agree to touch as a way of connecting.
Tucked behind the DJ booth, the Savoir Temple is an invitation to surrender, not to a person, but to sensation itself. A space where guests enter to connect through touch, with strangers, with the music, with themselves. You will be blindfolded from the moment you enter; remove it and the experience ends. Guided to a floor of soft furnishings and pillows, it is through touch that you connect.
Near 2:00 AM, the night comes back together for a short collective closing. This moment anchors the experience and marks the transition out of the immersive space. For the full arc of the night, we recommend staying until the end.
Keep reading…
Paul Meyers is the founder of SPNKD and a long-time guide in erotic intimacy, embodiment, and conscious connection. At CLUBSPNKD, Paul’s voice guides the opening immersion, pacing the room into the night and setting the energetic tone that carries through the dance floor and beyond. This is the voice you’ll drop into before the music fully takes over.
Alja Al Saadi is a rising force in the electronic music scene, blending resilience, passion, and a rich cultural heritage into her sound. Born into a hybrid Iraqi-Bosnian family where music was forbidden, Alja’s journey into artistry was forged through defiance and longing. Her love for music remained dormant until the age of 33, when she took her first piano lessons and discovered the missing piece of her soul, her connection to sound.
AD7USTMENT is a rising force in the techno scene, born between the pulse of Germany and the sun-drenched summers of his mother’s Spain. His journey into music began with drumsticks in the hands of a restless child, but it was one fateful night with Ricardo Villalobos that claimed his soul to techno forever. Years of deep craft and an undeniable inner call to evolve led to a moment of transformation, and from that moment, AD7USTMENT was born – a sound built to awaken your rave DNA and make the floor freak out.
Lynn Libertine – Savoir Temple
Lynn creates spaces where sensation is the language and presence is the practice. With a background spanning shibari, bodywork, tantra, and sensual movement, she brings a rare depth to the art of holding a room – warm enough to make you feel supported, magnetic enough to make you want to go further.
At the Savoir Temple, Lynn is the quiet architecture behind the experience. She doesn’t lead you somewhere. She opens the door and lets you find your own way through.

The play spaces open during part 2. They are clearly defined, safeguarded zones that exist alongside the dance floor, not instead of it. You may enter with a partner or with someone you meet during the night, provided there is clear, mutual consent.
Before entering, guests must:
The play spaces are held by trained SPNKD Crew:
Inside the play spaces
Not Permitted:
Permitted:
These guidelines are not about restriction. They are what make a shared erotic space at scale possible.

you agree to:
This night works because everyone helps hold it.
Your presence, awareness, and care shape the experience of the room.
– Welcome to CLUB SPNKD

CLUBSPNKD is for people who feel at ease in sex-positive, erotic environments and value clarity, consent, and self-responsibility. It’s for those curious about intimacy, kink, or embodied erotic exploration and who can hold both desire and restraint, presence over performance.
You may come solo, with a partner, or as part of a small constellation.No prior kink experience is required, but reading the house rules, knowing your boundaries, and taking responsibility for your capacity are essential.
Emotional maturity, respect for shared space, and awareness of others are part of the entry.
CLUBSPNKD is a space where movement, desire, and self-expression meet. We invite you to dress in a way that reflects your personal style and the unique erotic container we’ve created. Get your Dress code inspiration HERE
You’re welcome to wear:
We encourage guests to arrive already dressed in their outfit underneath their outdoor clothes to support a smooth arrival flow and allow the night to unfold seamlessly.

CLUB SPNKD takes place in an immersive Space by DIVE. With 360° projections, a central dance floor, lounge areas, and clearly defined play zones, it’s a conscious/supported held Erotic environment where nightlife energy meets structure, consent, and choice.
This event is only for adults (21+) who feel comfortable in sex-positive environments and value consent, communication, and self-responsibility. You can attend solo, with a partner, or as part of a small constellation.
The house rules outline how consent, boundaries, and play are held throughout the night. Reading and agreeing to them is required before attending. Read the house rules HERE
To keep the space grounded, present, and safe, phones are not allowed inside the dance hall or play zones. No personal photos or videos may be taken inside the dance hall at any point during the night.
A professional videographer will be present during the night to capture atmosphere footage only, some of which will be live-projected during the event. If you’d like a memory of your outfit or your friends, a photo booth will be available outside the dance hall. Photos taken there will be sent directly to you via email after the event.
No. While erotic play is possible within designated play zones, CLUB SPNKD is not a swinger event. Erotic engagement is optional, not expected, and the focus of the night is embodied presence, dance, and choice.
Yes partially, the night begins with a guided warm-up using voice, music, and projections to pace the room into the experience. After that, the event opens into a more traditional club flow with live DJs and free movement.
There are two play zones, located on either side of the main hall, each centered around a theme, Discover the themes during the evening. Each zone is equipped with imaginative furniture and the necessary supplies to clean and reset the space after use.
Read the house rules HERE for full details.
No. A designated smoking area is situated inside the venue.
No. Doors close at 21:40 to ensure everyone experiences the full opening phase and shared pacing of the night. Late entry is not possible.
You may bring personal items or tools, provided they comply with the house rules.No tools or impact items larger than 30 cm; All items can be subject to review by the safeguarding team.
Trained SPNKD Safeguarding Angels are present throughout the night. You can approach them at any time if you need support or assistance. DIVE Bar staff are also a point of contact, ask for “Angela” when feeling unsafe.
Location:Carnotstraat 90, DIVE Antwerp, Nearby Parkings are:
Discover all public parkings nearby HERE
Public bicycle stations nearby are:
Discover all public Bicycle parkings nearby HERE
There are two nearby hotels:
You can reach us at:
info@spnkd.com
eveline@spnkd.com
Yes.
Lockers are available (€2)
A vestiaire is also provided
No, to keep the integrity of the evening tickets will not be sold on the night at the door.
Entry to CLUB SPNKD constitutes confirmation that you have read, understood, and agreed to comply with our house rules. The organizers reserve the right to intervene and remove any guest who fails to adhere to these guidelines, without refund, in order to protect the safety, integrity, and wellbeing of the event and its guests.