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CLUBSPNKD is an immersive erotic club night where music, bodies, and desire move together inside a 360° audiovisual world. An experience where dance becomes ritual, eroticism becomes atmosphere, and consent becomes the foundation.
Dance. Connect. Play. Explore.

The night opens with a guided soundscape of music, voice, and 360° projection designed to bring you into your body and onto the dance floor. This is a paced warm-up to shift from the outside world into a shared rhythm.
As the energy builds, the space opens fully, dance floor, lounge, and curated play zones. You choose how you engage: dance, witness, connect, or play; eroticism is in the atmosphere, never an expectation. Stay until the closing ritual at 2u.
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CLUBSPNKD is an immersive nightclub experience held within a clear and intentional container. The night is structured, consciously facilitated, and designed to let you move freely, between dance, connection, and exploration, without losing clarity or consent.
It’s a night out, amplified.
Not chaotic. Not performative.
You choose how you engage, and the space is designed to support that choice.
Doors open at 20u and close at 20u45
Think of this as your landing phase.
Starts at 20u45 until 23u40
The night opens with a guided sound experience combining voice, music, and 360° projections.
From 23u40 – 02u00 (Play spaces open at 00u00)
As the guidance fades, two live DJs take over. The space opens fully: dance floor, lounge areas, rest zones and the play spaces for those who choose to enter them.
You can:
Erotic energy becomes part of the atmosphere, but never an expectation.
Near 2:00 AM, the night comes back together for a short collective closing. This moment anchors the experience and marks the transition out of the immersive space. For the full arc of the night, we recommend staying until the end.

The play spaces are clearly defined, safeguarded zones that exist alongside the dance floor, not instead of it. You may enter with a partner or with someone you meet during the night, provided there is clear, mutual consent.
Before entering, guests must:
The play spaces are held by trained SPNKD Crew:
Inside the play spaces
Not Permitted:
Permitted:
These guidelines are not about restriction. They are what make a shared erotic space at scale possible.

Paul Meyers is the founder of SPNKD and a long-time guide in erotic intimacy, embodiment, and conscious connection. With years of experience coaching and facilitating individuals and couples, Paul’s work focuses on helping people reconnect to their bodies, their desires, and their capacity for presence.
His approach blends psychology, sensual awareness, and emotional clarity, not as technique, but as lived experience. At CLUBSPNKD, Paul’s voice guides the opening immersion, pacing the room into the night and setting the energetic tone that carries through the dance floor and beyond.
This is the voice you’ll drop into before the music fully takes over.
Alja Al Saadi is a rising force in the electronic music scene, blending resilience, passion, and a rich cultural heritage into her sound. Born into a hybrid Iraqi-Bosnian family where music was forbidden, Alja’s journey into artistry was forged through defiance and longing. Her love for music remained dormant until the age of 33, when she took her first piano lessons and discovered the missing piece of her soul, her connection to sound.
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you agree to:
This night works because everyone helps hold it.
Your presence, awareness, and care shape the experience of the room.
– Welcome to CLUB SPNKD

CLUBSPNKD is for people who feel at ease in sex-positive, erotic environments and value clarity, consent, and self-responsibility. It’s for those curious about intimacy, kink, or embodied erotic exploration and who can hold both desire and restraint, presence over performance.
You may come solo, with a partner, or as part of a small constellation.No prior kink experience is required, but reading the house rules, knowing your boundaries, and taking responsibility for your capacity are essential.
Emotional maturity, respect for shared space, and awareness of others are part of the entry.
CLUBSPNKD is a space where movement, desire, and self-expression meet. We invite you to dress in a way that reflects your personal style and the unique erotic container we’ve created.
You’re welcome to wear:
We encourage guests to arrive already dressed in their outfit underneath their outdoor clothes to support a smooth arrival flow and allow the night to unfold seamlessly.

CLUB SPNKD takes place in an immersive Space by DIVE. With 360° projections, a central dance floor, lounge areas, and clearly defined play zones, it’s a conscious/supported held Erotic environment where nightlife energy meets structure, consent, and choice.
This event is only for adults (21+) who feel comfortable in sex-positive environments and value consent, communication, and self-responsibility. You can attend solo, with a partner, or as part of a small constellation.
The house rules outline how consent, boundaries, and play are held throughout the night. Reading and agreeing to them is required before attending. Read the house rules HERE
To keep the space grounded, present, and safe, phones are not allowed inside the dance hall or play zones. No personal photos or videos may be taken inside the dance hall at any point during the night.
A professional videographer will be present during the night to capture atmosphere footage only, some of which will be live-projected during the event. If you’d like a memory of your outfit or your friends, a photo booth will be available outside the dance hall. Photos taken there will be sent directly to you via email after the event.
No. While erotic play is possible within designated play zones, CLUB SPNKD is not a swinger event. Erotic engagement is optional, not expected, and the focus of the night is embodied presence, dance, and choice.
Yes partially, the night begins with a guided warm-up using voice, music, and projections to pace the room into the experience. After that, the event opens into a more traditional club flow with live DJs and free movement.
There are two play zones, located on either side of the main hall, each centered around a theme, Discover the themes during the evening. Each zone is equipped with imaginative furniture and the necessary supplies to clean and reset the space after use.
Read the house rules HERE for full details.
No. A designated smoking area is situated inside the venue.
No. Doors close at 21:40 to ensure everyone experiences the full opening phase and shared pacing of the night. Late entry is not possible.
You may bring personal items or tools, provided they comply with the house rules.No tools or impact items larger than 30 cm; All items can be subject to review by the safeguarding team.
Trained SPNKD Safeguarding Angels are present throughout the night. You can approach them at any time if you need support or assistance. DIVE Bar staff are also a point of contact, ask for “Angela” when feeling unsafe.
Location:Carnotstraat 90, DIVE Antwerp, Nearby Parkings are:
Discover all public parkings nearby HERE
Public bicycle stations nearby are:
Discover all public Bicycle parkings nearby HERE
There are two nearby hotels:
You can reach us at:
info@spnkd.com
eveline@spnkd.com
Yes.
Lockers are available (€2)
A vestiaire is also provided
No, to keep the integrity of the evening tickets will not be sold on the night at the door.
Entry to CLUB SPNKD constitutes confirmation that you have read, understood, and agreed to comply with our house rules. The organizers reserve the right to intervene and remove any guest who fails to adhere to these guidelines, without refund, in order to protect the safety, integrity, and wellbeing of the event and its guests.