– PLAY –
Soft socializing. Open play. No script. This is for anyone tired of meeting people through a screen. Who wants a room built for mingling, playing or relaxing.
Wednesday Dec 30,
18:30 (Doors close at 19u) – 23:00
SPNKD, Antwerp, Belgium
€ 45 / Person
Every last Wednesday of the month, the loft opens for something more relaxed: a sober salon where mingling, playing, and observing sit side by side. Rope play, creative scenes, BDSM dynamics: the loft is open to all of it. Meet up with friends or make new ones; this space is for socializing, playing, and relaxing. Grab a drink, find a corner, talk to someone new, play with your partner, or watch. There’s no set path for the evening, you decide how close you get. The evening is capped at 26 people.
Included in the ticket price is drinks, snacks a fully equipped playroom. Towels/latex gloves available upon request. phones stay in bags and on silent,
House rules:
Clear communication. Enthusiastic consent. Mutual respect.
Meeting someone during the evening and feeling the pull to play is part of what this salon is for. We recommend meeting a person a few times before playing together, so you can gauge if they can name their boundaries clearly. Do they know their own triggers? Are you comfortable with them being semi-responsible for your wellbeing during a scene, and them with you?
But If the vibe is there and you’re keen to play, work through these steps first:
Receiver / bottom / sub:
Giver / top / dom:
We assume anyone playing has read the above and knows how to apply it.
Individuals & couples welcome; a low-threshold way to meet likeminded people and get to know the SPNKD loft. All genders, sexualities, bodies, and constellations belong here.
This is a self-governing evening. Come consent-aware: know your own boundaries, give and receive a “no” without shame, and take responsibility for when to engage, pause, or ask for support from Eveline or a SPNKD team member.
The loft: A bathroom that doubles as a changing room, several cozy corners to settle into, and a full toolrack (ropes, impact implements, a set of restraints) available to use. Bring your own tools if you’d rather work with your own. Four suspension points, a bondage daybed, and a wet zone round out the loft. Towels are available on request.
Timings:
What’s not allowed: Acts of penetration; oral, vaginal, anal, or otherwise are not part of this evening’s structure.. Eveline will step in if she notices this taking place. We encourage creative play that steers away from the escalator to orgasm; the loft is a playground, enjoy it! Blood play and scat are also not allowed. The salon is for socializing, playing, and relaxing.
How this differs from a Private Play Evening: Private Play Evenings are reserved for established couples or duos with a semi-established BDSM dynamic, built on trust, and versed in playing consciously (consent, boundaries, risk profiles). The Soft Social Salon is open to individuals and couples alike, sober, and built equally around mingling and play, not play alone.
General manager of SPNKD and long-standing community member, Eveline hosts the evening alongside a SPNKD team member. She’s passionate about creating containers for exploration and adult play, and felt there was a gap: real-life spaces that actually encourage community. In a world quick to trade real connection for parasocial substitutes, Eveline built this evening as its counterpoint, a comfortable, soft setting where adult play and in-person community are both welcome, and neither has to explain itself.
She won’t be playing tonight; she’s there to keep the evening running and to answer anything about the SPNKD universe. She’ll keep an eye and an ear on the room, but consent stays your responsibility, not hers to police.
Relaxed and the dress code reflects it: leave your shoes at the door and come as you are. Room to change is available if needed. Nudity is welcome.
Yes. You can change in the bathroom.
Yes. Paid parking PIDPA is available within an 8-minute walk of the venue.
To maintain a space of conscious, clear, and connected play, this event is entirely sober No alcohol or recreational substances are permitted before or during the night. This ensures that consent, boundaries, and communication remain fully present and intentional for everyone involved.
No; to preserve the intimacy and container of the evening, doors will close promptly at 19u. If you are running late due to traffic or public transport please alert the SPNKD Team via email. info@spnkd.com
This rule means that while sensual and intimate touch is welcome (always with consent), acts of penetration; oral, vaginal, anal, or otherwise are not part of this evening’s structure. This boundary ensures a shared sense of safety and allows for creative, conscious, and playful connection beyond conventional scripts.
No. Experience isn’t required; what matters most is clear communication, shared consent, and an attuned, aware approach to play
Of course. For any last-minute questions, email us at eveline@spnkd.com and Eveline will respond promptly.
Photography will be discreet and consent-based. Guests are welcome to take personal photos provided others are not captured without explicit permission.
No. The intention is not group sex, escalation, or erotic exhibitionism. Cross-play is welcome only when mutual, clearly communicated, and aligned with your dynamic. The focus is on conscious kink, intimate exploration, and shared erotic presence, not swapping.
This party is only 21+. This event is open to singles and couples of all genders, sexualities, and bodies.
This is a kink- and sex-positive environment where desire, intimacy, and erotic exploration are welcomed with respect and awareness. All play must be fully consensual and be communicated clearly. Guests are expected to uphold a culture of consent, autonomy, and mutual care throughout the night.
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