The Foundations of Dominance
Competence, grounding, and connection as pillars of leadership.
By Paul Meyers • 7 min read • ENGLISH
For Men Only
A deep shift in how you lead, desire and embody your masculine power.
About
Most men feel the desire to lead with confidence, to be a grounded presence that others trust instinctively. But without inner structure, dominance becomes performance, insecurity, or ego. This masterclass gives you the tools, practices and embodied experience to transform that.
Across three immersive days you will explore your masculine identity, train your nervous system, practice real dominance and learn to create erotic tension with clarity and integrity. This is not theory. This is initiation.
When booking your workshop, you’ll be directed to a page where you can pay for all three days in one transaction.
Day 1: Embracing Dominance
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Day 2: Exploring Dominance
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Day 3: Embody Dominance and Create Erotic Experiences
Day 3 brings everything together. You learn how to build a BDSM scene with intention, intelligence and emotional awareness. You practise frameworks, role play, structure and aftercare so you can create experiences that are powerful, connected and safe.
You will learn:
- how to choose psychological and physical elements for a scene
- how to build waves, pacing, climax and landing
- how to lead intensity without losing yourself or overpowering the other
- how to claim your unique Dominant signature with confidence
You leave this masterclass with a felt sense of masculine presence, a deeper erotic authority and the ability to lead from truth rather than performance.
The Teacher:
Meet Paul Meyers, founder of SPNKD and one of the rare men who teaches BDSM from the inside out. SPNKD has become a home for desire, a place where lovers step into luxurious lofts, sensual aesthetics and experiences that elevate their intimacy. Paul created SPNKD with one intention. To give people the freedom to explore their desires with intelligence, beauty and emotional depth.
Over the past five years Paul has shaped SPNKD into a reference point in the European BDSM scene. Not through shock value or theatrics but through refinement, presence and a deep understanding of human desire. His teaching goes far beyond techniques. Paul guides people into the psychology behind dominance and submission, the inner motivations that pull us toward kink and the emotional architecture that makes BDSM powerful, erotic and transformative.
His workshops are not performances. They are invitations to look inward. To understand what drives you. To explore how you love, lead and surrender. Paul teaches couples how to build sensual connections that feel safe and electric. He teaches men how to embody real dominance without ego. His work is about clarity, honesty and personal growth in a world where desire becomes art.
When you learn from Paul you do not just learn BDSM. You learn yourself
Dresscode
To foster an environment of respect and focus, we ask that all participants dress in smart casual attire, with the option to incorporate elements that resonate with your Dominant persona.
What is included?
Your enrollment covers all workshop materials, healthy snacks, and complimentary drinks throughout the day.