– PLAY –
– UNLEASH –
An evening for couples and singles already at home in shared play spaces, ready to go deeper into conscious BDSM, power and ritual. Seven corners, three House Dommes, one held room, and the freedom to define what you build within it.
Saturday December 5th,
Doors open 18u45 – 19u end of night 01u
Antwerp, SPNKD Loft
€ 100 / person
This evening is an exploration of BDSM and kink, for those already experienced in open play spaces. It goes further than your beginners event – introducing touch and presence, including power, dynamics, sensation, and the rituals that hold them.
Held for both couples and singles, 20 guests total: 7 couples, 6 singles. All participants are asked to apply individually, when you’re a couple, mention each other by name & that you are looking to attend together, introduce yourself & why you’d love to join. A photo is optional. no details will be shared.
Together, you’re invited to explore kink in a held, supportive environment.
This is not a swingers evening. Partner-swapping and sex are not the goal here, kink is. The space holds seven corners, each with its own prompts for couples and solos. What you build within them; a scene, a dynamic, a moment of service or surrender, is yours to define.
Ahead of the night, all guests are expected to attend the mandatory call on Wednesday 2nd of December, to set the tone.
Guests arrive at 19u; this moment is set aside to meet the room and each other, drink in hand. Fresh herbs, fruit, and non-alcoholic mixes throughout; this is a sober event, no alcohol will be served. Use this first stretch to feel out whether a connection with another guest might carry into play later in the night.
At 19u30, we open with a ritual circle to walk through the evening ahead. At 20u, the lights dim, and the night begins.
Seven zones, seven rituals: Each corner carries its own theme and offers a scene prompt to build from, alone, or with others. Every zone runs 45 minutes, with professional Dominatrixes Miss Lynn, Mrs.E & Miss Annie moving through the space to offer direction, tools, and ideas; never to steer your scene for you.
Interaction is part of the design; never an obligation. Guests navigate connection themselves; SPNKD does not match guests, which is exactly why prior social-play experience is a prerequisite. Try to move past “not attracted to them” as a measure of the night’s success. Meet people with curiosity instead; who is this person, what makes them tick.
Throughout the night, you’re free to opt out of a corner, take a break, or simply be, without disturbing the scenes held within it. The prompts are there as inspiration, never as instruction. Success here was never about whether you played with another person – it’s about staying present and playful in your own skin, first.
A few things to bring and consider:
Corner 1: Rope & Fire
Shibari, grounded in single-column tie work, woven with wax play. Guests bring their own risk-awareness and knowledge of their model. Mood: sensual, primal, strict. Prompts for couples, couples+solo, and solo self-tie.
Corner 2: Sensory & Feast
Bound and blindfolded sensation play, paired with feeding, feet, food, texture, temperature. Voyeurism lives here too: guests are welcome to simply watch rather than participate, sensation experienced through witnessing as much as touch.
Corner 3: Impact & Posture
Full tool rack for impact play, paired with posture training (graded 1–5). A corner built on discipline – strictness for those drawn to consequence, structure for those drawn to holding a position under instruction.
Corner 4: Service & Adornment
Servitude – tease and denial, with cage. Feminisation, with lingerie brought by guests. Shaving, on the day bed, offered as a ritual act of devotion or transformation rather than a practical task. A corner about being served, serving, or being remade.
Corner 5: Power & Penetration
Anal play and pegging – a penetrative power-exchange corner. Prep reminder built into the copy, so guests arrive ready if this is where they want to play.
This evening is designed for both couples and singles who are intermediate in shared play spaces, ready to explore conscious BDSM dynamics and rituals in a held, guided setting.
To attend, we ask that all guests arrive with a few essentials already in place:
Ideally, you’ve also:
Upon arrival, hosts walk you through the space; what’s happening where, and how each corner holds its own scene.
BDSM chic, or ritual – whatever resonates with you. Let this be a moment of intention: what would you wear to play? Bring that. Wear that. Upon arrival, we ask you to change into your chosen outfit from the start of the evening. No outdoor shoes. If you’re wearing dress shoes, please make sure the soles are clean.
Three professional House Dommes hold this evening from the start. If you’d like to show your appreciation, guests are welcome to bring flowers, snacks, books, or a card with words of appreciation.
Lynn has a decade of experience in creating unforgettable encounters. Not just as a dominatrix but also as a host for a wide range of workshops and play parties. Lynn’s style tonight will be strict and charming. Expect clear rules that you must follow as well as naughty ideas to spark your mind.
A professional domme, Miss Annie has been exploring the playgrounds of BDSM for the past 5 years. She brings sophistication, elegance, a sadistic edge, and a gentle touch to every encounter. Her playfulness will leave an intoxicating afterglow in both mind and body.
If you’ve been to SPNKD Antwerp, you’ve felt her work, even if you didn’t see it. As co-creator and General Manager of the loft, Mrs. Evelyn shapes the spaces, the evenings and the stories that make this community what it is. Every detail is chosen. Nothing is accidental. Tonight, she steps out from behind the scenes and into the room. Expect warmth with an edge. She builds worlds for a living, and tonight you’re invited into one of hers. She knows this house by heart. Let her show you what it holds.
Interaction is part of the design, never an obligation. Some couples stay close all night, letting the corners deepen what’s already between them. Others invite a new guest into their scene. Singles are welcome to connect, play, or simply witness. We don’t match guests, so connection is yours to navigate, which is exactly why prior experience in shared play spaces is asked of everyone.
And to be clear: this is not a swingers evening. Kink is the focus, not partner-swapping or sex.
No, and that’s intentional. Ritual Play Night is an intermediate evening for those already at home in open play spaces. Every guest applies, and we ask that you arrive with a working understanding of consent, your own boundaries, your risk profile, and a single-column tie. Ideally you’ve already joined us for a beginners event, a play night or a rope munch.
New to all of this? Start there. We’d love to welcome you into this room when you’re ready.
Consensual, pre-discussed breath play, penetration, bondage and impact play are all part of what this night can hold. Blood play and scat are not. This list marks the outer edge, not a default. Every act still asks for its own negotiation between the people in the scene. If you’re drawn to the Power & Penetration corner, prepare beforehand so you arrive ready.
It begins before you arrive: every guest applies, and every guest joins the mandatory call to set the tone together. On the night, your hosts walk you through the space, open the evening with a ritual circle, and move through the room all night long, offering direction, tools and ideas when you want them.
Scenes are private within their corner. Watch with respect, never interrupt. And if something feels like too much, come to us the moment you notice it. Pausing, stepping out of a corner or simply being is always allowed.
Because presence is what makes this kind of play possible. No alcohol is served. Instead, fresh herbs, fruit, chocolate and non-alcoholic mixes are there throughout the night. A clear mind keeps your yes, your no and everything in between fully alive.
Doors open at 18u45 and close at 19u. Arrive within that window so you have time to change, meet the room, and feel out who you might want to play with later. At 19u30 we open with the ritual circle, and the night begins.
We ask everyone to stay until the closing ritual at 00u45, so the room is held as a whole. If at any point staying no longer serves you, going home is always the right choice, but never without finding Lynn, Eveline or Annie first. We hold the room until everyone in it is accounted for.
Your own tools and toys, whatever makes a scene yours. Lingerie, if Adornment calls to you. If shaving is a ritual you’d like to experience on the night, hold off beforehand and let it happen here & bring your shaving tools.
Dress in BDSM chic or ritual wear, whatever resonates. Change into your outfit as soon as you arrive, and leave outdoor shoes at the door. And if you’d like to thank your House Dommes, flowers, snacks, a book or a few written words are always received with joy.
Yes. A bathroom functions as a changing area and will be available for all guests.
Yes. Paid parking (PIDPA) is available within an 8-minute walk of the venue.
Of course. For any last-minute questions, email us at info@spnkd.com and our team will respond promptly.