What if four days away from routine opened a new chapter in your intimacy?
Here, your erotic exploration becomes embodied, your truth becomes power, and your pleasure becomes a practice.
The Couple Erotic intimacy Retreat • Given in ENGLISH
Step out of habit. Come back to each other.
Explore desire with clarity & care.
Four days. one shared journey.
The Couples Erotic Intimacy Retreat 28th – 31st May’26
Hosted by:
From Thursday May 28th to Sunday May 31st, 14 couples gather on a secluded heritage estate surrounded by protected nature, just 20 minutes from the south of Antwerp, Belgium. This is an intimate, curated retreat designed exclusively for couples who want to explore connection and conscious kink in a supported and intentional container.
Throughout the weekend, you’ll be immersed in a blend of embodied practices, erotic communication, playfulness, power and fantasy dynamics, and inspiring evening experiences that open and enrich your relationship. Everything unfolds in a warm, safe, and inviting atmosphere, guided by Paul and a carefully selected team of guest teachers and performers.
The retreat is built on our Erotic Intimacy Roadmap: SPNKD’s framework for conscious erotic growth. It outlines four core energies couples move through: building emotional safety, inviting playful exploration, awakening embodied power, and expanding into deeper connection. It’s not a fixed path, but a lens to understand where you are, and where you might want to grow next. → Read more about the Erotic Intimacy Roadmap.
The Retreat is for couples who:
- Want to rekindle intimacy and deepen emotional connection
- Are curious about erotic exploration, kink or BDSM in a guided setting
- Are open to learning, growing, and playing in a respectful, curated space
No prior experience in kink or BDSM is required; curiosity and mutual willingness are enough. Have questions or want to check if this retreat is the right fit for you as a couple? We’re happy to connect.
Meet the Retreat Host – Paul
The retreat is hosted by Paul (Insta: @you.are.pleasure), founder of SPNKD; guiding conscious play, embodied power dynamics, and grounded erotic exploration. His work is rooted in presence, consent, and helping couples move beyond performance into authentic connection.
He is joined by a carefully curated team:
MissV. (Insta: @yes.missv): A professional Dominatrix with over a decade of experience, MissV. has been creating and holding powerful fetish scenes since 2010, in the Netherlands and internationally. Through shows, demos, workshops, and curated experiences, she has developed a fierce passion for crafting intense yet intentional encounters.
Lynn Libertine (@lynn_libertine): Lynn creates spaces where couples can explore sensual expression with playfulness and warmth. With a background in shibari, bodywork, tantra, and sensual movement, she blends structure with softness. Her signature sensual dinner and connection-based facilitation invite discovery without pressure; allowing couples to explore their dynamic in an engaging, supportive atmosphere.
Marie Sauvage (@marie.sauvage): Marie is a Paris-based shibari artist whose work weaves sensuality, art, and ritual. Trained at Parsons Paris and mentored by Japanese masters Hajime Kinoko and Yagami Ren. Her practice moves between eroticism and meditation, where vulnerability becomes beauty and surrender becomes strength.
The Flow of the Weekend
Thursday – Arrival & Opening: Gentle arrival, grounding, connection practices, and setting intentions.
Friday – Building Trust & Play: Workshops focused on communication, embodied connection, and introductory kink & rope exploration. In the evening, a curated sensual dinner and guided play space.
Saturday – Depth & Expansion: Bodywork, power dynamics, rope, and more adventurous exploration, always within a clear consent framework. Evening integration and optional play space.
Sunday – Integration & Closing: Reflection, soft landing practices, and embodied connection before returning home.
You’ll leave with:
practical tools for communication and consent, a clearer understanding of your desires and boundaries, and new ways to nurture intimacy, play, and connection in your relationship long after the retreat ends.
Two Ways to Experience the Retreat
Both formulas run from Thursday to Sunday at the Bleyckhof estate and include the full retreat program. This covers all workshops and guided sessions, curated evening experiences, daily breakfasts, lunches, and dinners, as well as continuous access to the sauna, heated hot tub, and outdoor spaces. Throughout the four days, the estate is reserved exclusively for the group, allowing you to fully settle into the environment and focus on your shared journey.
Resident Couple – €2600 per couple
Stay inside the heritage estate in one of the six elegant double rooms. This option offers a cocooned and comfortable experience within the house itself, with close access to all shared spaces and sessions. Bathrooms are shared with the other guests. TICKETS & MORE INFO HERE
Prefer a simpler, nature-based stay while still joining the core retreat experience?
Nature Couple – €1800 per couple
Stay in a beautifully furnished bell tent on the estate grounds, surrounded by trees and open air. You receive the exact same program and access as Resident couples, while sleeping under canvas for a more nature-connected experience. TICKETS & MORE INFO HERE
Each tent includes:
• two single beds made into a comfortable double with duvet
• soft bedside lighting and a nightstand
• a hanging rack for clothing
• access to shared bathrooms with the other tented guests
Nourishment by Food.For.Karma
Throughout the retreat, all meals are lovingly prepared by Food for Karma @food.for.karma. For this intimate weekend, they curate a complete culinary experience in resonance with the themes of the retreat: connection, softness, and pleasure.
The menu is fully plant-based and rich in plant proteins, and created with attention to lightness, digestion, and sustained energy throughout the day.
Four days.
Space to reconnect.
Room to explore, consciously, together.
If this speaks to you, don’t wait for the “perfect moment.”
Choose your formula and secure your place.
More about SPNKD
Founded in 2018, SPNKD was created to support individuals and couples on their erotic journeys, whether taking their first steps into kink and BDSM, rekindling intimacy, or expanding practices already alive within their relationship.
Our mission is to create refined, discreet, consent-led spaces where intimacy, connection, and erotic exploration can unfold consciously and supported. We believe that when desire is approached with awareness and curiosity, it becomes a powerful pathway toward deeper partnership and embodied growth.