– EMBRACE – – PLAY – – UNLEASH –
For couples seeking to reignite passion, deepen trust, and explore their erotic edges in a supported, curated space. This immersive retreat offers guided intimacy practices, playful kink exploration, and soulful connection in an exclusive setting designed for transformation
Time & Location
Thursday May 28th, 19u – Sunday May 31st 14u
Secret Location – 20min drive from Antwerp
Are you and your partner ready to reignite your erotic connection, deepen trust, and step into delicious new territory, held by nature itself?
Four days. A secluded heritage estate surrounded by protected woodland, twenty minutes south of Antwerp. A carefully held programme of workshops, embodied practices, and curated evening experiences, designed to deepen erotic connection, expand trust, and open new territory between you. Guided by Paul and a hand-selected team of experts in conscious, embodied adult play.
This is the SPNKD Erotic Intimacy Retreat, and from Thursday May 28th to Sunday May 31st, you’re invited to join as a Nature Couple. You’ll stay in one of the cosy furnished Glamping tents on the estate grounds, sleeping under canvas, close to the earth, wrapped in the gentle simplicity of nature.
Each Glamping tent is set up with care:
two single beds made into a comfortable double with duvet
soft bedside lighting & a nightstand
a hanging rack for clothing
Access to the wood-heated outdoor sauna and bubble bath on the estate grounds
You’ll enjoy full access to all workshops, long lunches, nourishing dinners, and curated evening experiences, while sleeping under canvas, close to the earth, and wrapped in the gentle simplicity of nature. It’s the perfect balance of depth and playfulness: intimate exploration by day, the soothing sounds of nature by night.
The retreat will be given in english
If you feel called to a more cocooned and fully immersive stay with a private room in the estate, you can explore the Resident Formula, designed for couples who want the complete four-day retreat experience from arrival to integration.
Want to rekindle intimacy and deepen emotional connection
Are curious about erotic exploration, kink or BDSM in a guided setting
Are open to learning, growing, and playing in a respectful, curated space
No prior experience in kink or BDSM is required; curiosity and mutual willingness are enough. Have questions or want to check if this retreat is the right fit for you as a couple? We’re happy to connect.
Over four days, you’ll move through a blend of embodied practices, erotic communication, playfulness, power dynamics, and curated evening experiences, all unfolding in a warm, held atmosphere guided by Paul and our carefully chosen team of guest teachers.
Glimpses of what the weekend holds:
Sensory Playground with Lynn Libertine: a temple-style exploration of touch, rhythm, and sensual presence. Desire communicated beyond words, in couple and group constellations.
Sensual Rope with Marie Sauvage: Shibari as a language of intention and connection. Rope as ritual. Accessible to beginners, profound for those with experience.
Rituals & Protocols with MissV.: how structure becomes erotic charge. Rules, gestures, and language that deepen a dynamic and prepare you for the evening’s play.
Sensual Dinner hosted by Lynn: as night falls, the dining room becomes a playful temple of the senses. Each course arrives with a small invitation. How you respond is entirely yours.
And more..
Each session opens something: awareness, trust, desire, play. Nothing is performed. Everything is inhabited. The full programme weaves workshops, nourishing lunches, tantalizing dinners, and curated evening experiences into four unhurried days.
practical tools for communication and consent, a clearer understanding of your desires and boundaries, and new ways to nurture intimacy, play, and connection in your relationship long after the retreat ends.
Meet the Retreat Host: Paul
The retreat is hosted by Paul(Insta: @you.are.pleasure), founder of SPNKD; guiding conscious play, embodied power dynamics, and grounded erotic exploration. His work is rooted in presence, consent, and helping couples move beyond performance into authentic connection.
He is joined by a carefully curated team:
MissV. (Insta: @yes.missv): A professional Dominatrix with over a decade of experience, MissV. has been creating and holding powerful fetish scenes since 2010, in the Netherlands and internationally. Through shows, demos, workshops, and curated experiences, she has developed a fierce passion for crafting intense yet intentional encounters.
Marie Sauvage (@marie.sauvage): Marie is a Paris-based shibari artist whose work weaves sensuality, art, and ritual. Trained at Parsons Paris and mentored by Japanese masters Hajime Kinoko and Yagami Ren. Her practice moves between eroticism and meditation, where vulnerability becomes beauty and surrender becomes strength.
Lynn Libertine (@lynn_libertine): Lynn creates spaces where couples can explore sensual expression with playfulness and warmth. With a background in shibari, bodywork, tantra, and sensual movement, she blends structure with softness. Her signature sensual dinner and connection-based facilitation invite discovery without pressure; allowing couples to explore their dynamic in an engaging, supportive atmosphere.
Timings & Flow for Nature Couples
Thursday – Arriving & Landing An evening to arrive, settle into the estate, and gently meet the group. We open the space with shared intentions, clarity, and grounding so you can fully relax into the journey ahead.
Friday – Awakening Connection A day dedicated to softening into each other, exploring presence, communication, and playful intimacy. You’ll move through practices that reconnect the senses and open the body to curiosity and pleasure.
Saturday – Deepening Desire We explore deeper layers of intimacy, fantasy, power, and expression always held with consent and care. This day invites expansion, honest desire, embodied exploration, and shared courage as a couple.
Sunday – Integrating & Closing A gentle morning to gather insights, integrate the experience, and close the circle. You leave grounded, connected, and carrying the gifts of the retreat back into everyday life.
FAQ
Is this suitable for beginners or more experienced couples? Yes. Whether you’re just starting to explore or already have some experience with kink or erotic practices, you’ll find plenty of guidance, inspiration, and depth. All sessions are optional, fully consent-based, and designed to meet you where you are.
Do we have to join every session? Not at all. Every workshop and activity is optional. You’re encouraged to follow your curiosity and honor your boundaries.
Is nudity or sexual interaction expected? Only with your full, enthusiastic consent. All practices are clearly guided, and you choose what feels right for you.
Are meals included? Yes—Breakfast, lunch and dinner are fully included for all three days.
What’s the investment? – Nature Couple €1,800 ✔️ Full access Thursday–Sunday ✔️ All workshops and evening events ✔️ All meals ✔️ 3-night stay in a cosy furnished bell tent ✔️ A nature-held, grounded space to unwind and reconnect
Come Curious. Leave Transformed.
This isn’t just a weekend away, it’s a sacred, sexy invitation to rediscover each other. To speak your desires. To explore new edges. To be held, witnessed, and turned on, in every sense of the word.