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For couples ready to explore BDSM but want to understand the landscape before stepping in. For couples who want to co-create an erotic world with clarity, attunement, and a deepened sense of desire.
Thursday June 25,
19:00 – 22:00
Berlin, Studio Stellar
€ 150 / couple
It’s about awakening your curiosity.
About seeing each other with new eyes.
About giving shape to a desire that has been waiting for a doorway.
About creating a shared erotic language – something personal, intimate, and alive.
You are not learning tricks.
You are learning how to build a world where desire feels at home.
Step inside a space where desire becomes play, imagination becomes connection, and the two of you get to design the kind of erotic world you’ve secretly craved but never dared to articulate.
This workshop is your entry point into BDSM as a language of intimacy, not performance, not porn scripts, not stereotypical roles. Just you, your partner, and the thrilling possibility of discovering what you can create together when you finally give yourselves permission.
Expect curiosity. Expect sparks. Expect to surprise yourselves
Every couple carries a hidden erotic landscape.
Here, you learn to shape it:
This is where your shared fantasy begins: with design, imagination, and the courage to speak your desire out loud.
Power is not about who’s in charge, it’s about how energy flows. Through simple, playful exercises, you will feel the impact of:
These are the basics that turn an ordinary moment into a charged encounter.
This is where communication becomes erotic and clarity becomes freedom.
You will learn the essential tools to explore BDSM safely, consciously, and with confidence:
This is your navigation system. Once you master this, everything else becomes easier, safer, and far more exciting.
Creative Lead and General Manager of SPNKD Berlin, Ena is a sensualist and multidisciplinary creatrix who weaves together creative direction, somatics, and the sensual arts in her work as a conscious kink educator, facilitator, and bodyworker.
With a lifelong passion for storytelling and immersive experiences, she approaches every workshop, session, and event as a narrative shaped by presence, sensation, and attunement. She’s known for her intimate and intuitive approach, prioritizing connection, communication, and deep listening over technique alone.
Whether facilitating a workshop or holding one-on-one space, Ena creates environments where people feel grounded, supported, and seen – inviting them into a slower, more intentional relationship with touch, desire, and embodiment.
A highly empathic space holder with a background as a technical architect and project manager, Roxu brings a unique fusion of structural precision and emotional intelligence to SPNKD and to his work as an educator and facilitator.
Relocated to Berlin from southern Spain in 2025, where he previously co-founded the rope studio Espacio Takibi, and has been an active initiator in the local kink scene for a decade, Roxu is a dedicated community builder known for creating warm, inclusive spaces where students feel safe to explore.
As partners in life, work, ropes and kink Ena’s and Roxu’s dynamic is as layered as their teaching. Across their various roles, Ena and Roxu navigate a fluid BDSM dynamic – switching between dominance and submission, structure and surrender, precision and abandon, with the kind of attunement that only comes from deep trust and relentless curiosity about each other.
They don’t teach power dynamics from a textbook; they live them, negotiate them, and play with them daily. What they bring to this workshop is not theory at a distance, but an intimate, honest window into what it actually looks like when two people build a kink practice together from scratch – navigating desire, vulnerability, and growth in real time.
For the workshop it is best to wear something comfortable. The focus during the workshop is on transferring information and ‘learning’ techniques. Please note, this is not an erotic workshop! The clothes stay on.
What should we wear?
Wear something comfortable, light, and sensual (e.g., leggings, yoga clothes, lingerie if you’re bold). We ask that underwear remains on for this workshop.
Is this workshop suitable for complete beginners?
Yes. This class is designed for beginners with no previous experience. All you need is openness, clear communication with your partner, and a willingness to learn.
Is there a changing room?
Yes. You can change in one of the two bathrooms or in a designated changing room next to the workshop space.
Is there parking nearby?
Yes, there’s paid street parking directly outside and the smaller crossing streets nearby. Finding available spots might take some time, so please arrive in good time if you’re coming by car. The venue is easily accessible via Ubahns U8 to Schönleinstraße (5 minute walk) or U7 to Südstern (10 minute walk) or with the M41 Bus to Graefestraße.
Can we ask questions before the event?
Of course. For any last-minute questions, email us at ena@spnkd.com and our team will respond promptly.
Interested in the best handmade SPNKD ropes? We have beautiful Shibari rope sets. Take a look at our webshop, or buy sets directly at our workshop.