– EMBRACE –
For couples who want to feel that craving again, for each other, and from each other – this is an afternoon to rediscover the language of desire together : how to touch, how to ask, how to be met.
Sunday October 25,
14:00 – 18:00
(Doors open at 13u50 – close at 14u05)
Antwerp, SPNKD Loft
€ 150 / Couple
There was a time when you couldn’t keep your hands off each other. When desire felt effortless, electric, alive. That hasn’t disappeared. It’s just waiting to be rekindled.
Maybe the distance crept in slowly, busy lives, familiar routines, the quiet fear of reaching out and being met with nothing. Maybe one of you wants more and doesn’t know how to ask. Maybe you’re still intimate but something essential is missing, that hunger, that charge, that feeling of truly mattering to each other. Maybe mismatched desire has introduced something you didn’t expect : guilt, withdrawal, doubt. A loop neither of you knows how to break.
Or maybe things are good and you want them to be extraordinary.
Either way, you’re in the right place
The Workshop will be taught in english.
Desire between two people starts with desire within one. This workshop is built on that foundation.
Connection with yourself, first. Before you can find each other again, you have to find yourself, what moves you, what you crave, what you’ve stopped voicing. You’ll reconnect with your own inner fire : that living energy that doesn’t depend on mood, circumstance, or your partner to exist. Everything you build together after is built on that ground.
The language of desire. Learning to name what you want. Discovering your own preferences and your partner’s. Understanding how you each like to touch and be touched. How to initiate without fear of pressure or rejection. How to say no — and yes — in ways that feel honest and erotic at the same time. Not assumptions. Not guesswork. A shared language, built together.
The closing ritual. An immersive, embodied experience to close the evening – where everything you’ve explored lands in the body, between you. The rituals, presence, and intentionality that turn ordinary time together into something sacred, on your own terms, long after tonight ends.
This workshop is for couples who:
No crisis needed. No prior experience required.
Over the course of this afternoon, you’ll explore how desire actually works, starting with your own, then your partner’s. You’ll learn how to reconnect with yourself, how to reawaken desire, how to fuel it, and how to stop leaving it to chance.
This is not theory. It’s a lived experience; conscious touch, guided practices, breathwork, eye contact, and a closing ritual that will stay with you long after you leave. Not just in your memory. In your body. You’ll learn how to initiate without fear, how to receive without holding back, and how to speak the language of desire clearly and erotically, including how you each like to touch and be touched.
Above all, you’ll leave with the experience of having offered each other a rare gift : a moment out of time, fully present, fully together and the tools to keep building your own sacred space, long after tonight.
Before you arrive : you’ll receive a short set of questions to reflect on ahead of the workshop. A bit of homework, not a test. It helps us understand what this room needs, so the experience can meet you exactly where you are.
For over a decade, Sarah has accompanied thousands of individuals and couples toward more pleasure, deeper connection, and a love life that truly feels alive; through coaching, couples therapy, workshops, retreats, talks and press features.
Her work spans the full landscape of intimacy : from reigniting desire and healing sexual blocks, to helping couples rebuild trust, reconnect emotionally, and co-create a relationship in which both feel fully themselves.
Grounded in Master’s degrees in psychology, sexology and pedagogy and enriched by training in couples therapy, hypnotherapy, schema therapy and beyond, her approach is an alchemy of clinical rigour, radical honesty, and a profound warmth that makes even the most vulnerable parts of you feel safe to surface. No judgment. No dogma. Just precise, soulful work in service of who you truly are.
She is driven by one deep conviction : that a human being at peace with their desire and their relationships doesn’t just transform their own life, they help create a more compassionate world.
She is a supported space where the most intimate parts of you are not just welcomed, they are celebrated.
There’s no need to dress up or down – the focus is on comfort, presence, and participation. We invite you to wear whatever helps you feel grounded and at ease: soft layers, cozy clothes, or whatever you’d wear to sit, move, and reflect comfortably for a few hours. Come as you are, your presence is what matters.
What should we wear?
For the workshop it is best to wear something light and comfortable.
Is this workshop suitable for complete beginners?
Yes. This class is designed for beginners with no previous experience. All you need is openness, clear communication with your partner, and a willingness to learn.
Is there a changing room?
Yes. A bathroom functions as a changing area and will be available for all guests.
Is there parking nearby?
Yes. Paid parking (PIDPA) is available within an 8-minute walk of the venue.
Can we ask questions before the event?
Of course. For any last-minute questions, email us at info@spnkd.com and our team will respond promptly.
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