Couples Workshop - Bedroom Bound

About

We practice Shibari for a number of reasons, but let’s admit it: Rope bondage and sex are natural bedfellows. 

In this workshop every tie you’ll learn is chosen because it’s hot, fast to apply, easy to remember, and safe enough to take home tonight. Whether you’re acting out a fantasy, craving the thrill of control and surrender, or simply want to add a new dimension to your intimacy, a few lengths of rope and some simple knots can get you there; no complex patterns or years of practice required.

Discover

Few things kill the mood more than fumbling endlessly with a knot or friction. The secret to bringing rope into the bedroom is keeping it simple, practicing the basics until they feel effortless, and then letting the ropes become an extension of your hands and desires. In this workshop we skip the intricate patterns and focus on versatile, effective ties that let you stay present with your partner and in the moment.

Learn the moves here, take them home, and make them your own.

What you will explore

• Building your Bedroom Bondage Toolkit: Learn a series of simple knots and structures with a big impact.
• Positions and Transitions: How to move effortlessly from one delicious scenario to the next.
• Safety tips That Doesn’t Kill the Mood: Because confidence is the sexiest thing you can bring to bed.
• Play and Intention: Turning technique into a shared experience.
• Pacing and anticipation: Using the tying itself as foreplay — going slow, building tension, making every wrap count.
• Making it yours: We demonstrate, you practice, and then we encourage you to improvise, and experiment on your own.

The Experts:

Ena Dahl

Creative Lead/General Manager of SPNKD Berlin, Ena is a sensualist and multidisciplinary creatrix who weaves together creative direction, somatics, and the sensual arts in her work as a conscious kink educator, facilitator, and bodyworker.

With a lifelong passion for storytelling and immersive experiences, she approaches every workshop, session, and event as a narrative shaped by presence, sensation, and attunement. In ropes, she is known for her intimate and intuitive style, prioritizing connection, communication, and deep listening over technique alone.

Whether facilitating a workshop or holding one-on-one space, Ena creates environments where people feel grounded, supported, and seen — inviting them into a slower, more intentional relationship with touch, desire, and embodiment.

Roxu

A highly empathic space holder with a background as a technical architect and project manager, Roxu brings a unique fusion of structural precision and emotional intelligence to SPNKD and to his work as an educator and facilitator.

Relocated to Berlin from southern Spain in 2025, where he previously co-founded the rope studio Espacio Takibi, and has been an active initiator in the local kink scene for nearly a decade, Roxu is a dedicated community builder known for creating warm, inclusive spaces where students feel safe to explore.

As a shibari rigger he’s been passionately learning and practicing since 2016 and is known for his precise, seductive style and attuned, deliberate control.

The Duo

As partners in life, work and ropes Ena and Roxu are a duo whose dynamic is curious, collaborative, and built on trust. They view Shibari as an intimate, erotic dialogue — slow, playful, and emotionally charged. Teaching and performing together across Europe and beyond, they invite students to find their own unique interplay within the ropes.

Dresscode

Wear something comfortable, light, and sensual. Partial nudity is welcome if you feel comfortable, yet we ask that underwear remain on.

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FAQ

What should we wear?

Wear something comfortable, light, and sensual (e.g., leggings, yoga clothes, lingerie if you’re bold). We ask that underwear remains on for this workshop.

Is this workshop suitable for complete beginners?

Absolutely. Everything is designed to be simple, safe, and immediately usable — no previous rope experience needed.

Will there be sexual play during the workshop?

No. This is a practical, hands-on learning workshop. You’ll practice the ties and positions with your partner, but sexual play is not part of the class. What you do with your new skills at home is entirely up to you 😉

Do I have to bring my own ropes?

Please bring 2–3 jute or hemp ropes (7–8 meters each) if you have them. If not, ropes can be purchased or borrowed at SPNKD.

Is there a changing room?

Yes. You can change in one of the two bathrooms or in the wardrobe next to the workshop space.

Is there parking nearby?

Yes, there’s paid street parking directly outside and the smaller crossing streets nearby. Finding available spots might take some time, so please arrive in good time if you’re coming by car. The venue is easily accessible via U-Bahns U8 to Schönleinstraße (5 minute walk) or U7 to Südstern (10 minute walk) or with the M41 Bus to Graefestraße.

Can we ask questions before the event?

Of course. For any last-minute questions, email us at ena@spnkd.com and our team will respond promptly.