– PLAY –
For couples who prefer a curated, sensual and kink-positive space where their desires can unfold slowly, consciously, and without spectacle.
Saturday January 24,
Doors open 20:30 – 21:00
Antwerp, SPNKD Loft
€ 200 / couple
For lovers & rulers who crave a night where their desires can take up space.
Inspired by the elegance of your finest lingerie and most refined suits, these evenings invite you to step into a world where sensuality is conscious, deliberate, and entirely your own. Meet like-minded couples and duos who play with depth, presence, and a shared taste for the beautifully twisted.
Attendance is limited and curated. Couples apply by sending a photo and a short motivation, allowing us to shape a group aligned in intention, awareness, and erotic curiosity. This ensures the night remains intimate, attuned, and energetically coherent.
This night is not guided, no assignments and no choreography. The space opens to your dynamic, your rituals, your protocols, your seduction. You create the evening you want to live.
These gatherings are not swingers events. While cross-play with another duo is welcome when mutually desired and clearly communicated, the intention is not quick escalation or performative eroticism. Instead, the loft becomes a playground for couples and duos who wish to explore power, intimacy, kink, and erotic presence in an atypical, curated setting.
A presence with the unmistakable SPNKD touch.
The evening is held by Paul, the founder of SPNKD. His role is to carry the flow of the night: welcoming you as you arrive, announcing the moment to change into evening attire, and signaling when the space opens for play. He keeps the rhythm steady and intentional so every duo can relax into their own dynamic without wondering what comes next.
Throughout the night, Paul is a point of reference. If you need support, have questions, or want a moment away from play to ground or reset, you can always approach him. He oversees the atmosphere with quiet attention, ensuring the space remains safe, attuned, and aligned with the tone of the evening.
Please note that hosts at SPNKD do not play with guests. Paul may be present with his own partner, but he does not engage in scenes with others. His role is to hold the container, not to participate in it, so you and your partner can explore with clarity, autonomy, and ease.
These nights are designed for:
If you’re new to kink or still exploring how to express boundaries and desires, we recommend our Temple Nights. These evenings focus less on BDSM play and more on embodied communication, safety, and discovering what you’re seeking.
To keep these gatherings intimate, attuned, and energetically coherent, we limit each edition to only nine couples. Because of this, guests are asked to submit a photo and a short written motivation when applying. This helps us curate a group of duos who share a similar mindset: conscious, respectful, curious, and aligned with the atmosphere of a SPNKD night.
In your message, tell us why you wish to attend, what your current experience or relationship with kink is, and who you are as a duo, whether romantic partners, play partners, or something in between. We only accept couples/duos.
Each edition has its own chemistry. If you’re not selected for one party, it simply means the mix of that night required a different balance , not that you’re unsuitable for future SPNKD events.
20:30 – 21:00
Arrival. Doors open at 20:30 & final entry at 21:00.
20:30 – 21:45
Soft socialising. Meet other couples and duos, feel the room, and shape the community you want to play within.
21:45 – 22:00
Optional changing moment. Slip into the outfits, lingerie, or ritual attire that evokes your dynamic. Begin your personal protocols if you have them.
22:00 – 00:00
The space opens for play.
Every duo finds their corner, their rhythm, their tension. Create your own arc. Your own ritual. Your own night.
Dress like a Lover or a Ruler.
When you step into the world of SPNKD, you dress to impress, classy, sensual, and unmistakably intentional. Think lingerie and suits, pieces that feel seductive, powerful, or deliciously vulnerable. Add as much kink as you desire.
Tempting textures, satin, leather, lace, latex, mesh, silk, sheer layers; all welcome.
Whether you’re in a gorgeous dress, a sculpted slip, a sleek suit, or minimalist fetish,wear, choose what makes you feel erotic and expressed.The loft has heated floors, keeping the space warm enough to shed layers as the night unfolds.
You’re welcome to arrive in elegant evening wear and later transition into lingerie, ritual attire, or partial nudity as you feel comfortable. A private bathroom is available for changing.
This is a kink- and sex-positive environment where desire, intimacy, and erotic exploration are welcomed with respect and awareness. All play must be fully consensual and be communicated clearly. Guests are expected to uphold a culture of consent, autonomy, and mutual care throughout the night.
This party is couples only (21+).
We welcome all duos: romantic couples, queer pairings, play partners, and non-binary constellations, as long as you attend as a pair. Singles are not admitted to this event.
No. The intention is not group sex, escalation, or erotic exhibitionism. Cross-play with another duo is welcome only when mutual, clearly communicated, and aligned with your dynamic. The focus is on conscious kink, intimate exploration, and shared erotic presence, not swapping.
No. There are no instructions, no assignments, no facilitated exercises. This night is designed for pairs who are confident navigating communication, boundaries, negotiation, and risk independently.
We suggest this event for intermediate players, couples who have basic familiarity with kink, rope, or BDSM dynamics and understand consent and aftercare. If you’re new to these worlds, we recommend starting with our Temple Nights, which support beginners through guided exploration.
From 22:00 onward, the loft becomes an open playground for duos to explore their own dynamics. Each couple chooses their corner, their rhythm, and the type of play that suits them, sensual, ritualistic, soft, intense, or anything in between. You create your own arc
Yes.
There is a private bathroom for changing, freshening up, or shifting into lingerie or ritualwear. The loft’s heated floors make it comfortable to wear more revealing attire throughout the evening.
Yes. Paid Parking PIDPA is available within approximately an 8-minute walk of the venue.
Check your spam or junk folder, your confirmation contains the event address and essential details. If you still can’t find it, contact us.
Email us at info@spnkd.com and our team will respond promptly.