26
Apr

Sensual Seduction: A guided play party by Roxu & Ena


For Lovers & Rulers

– PLAY –
In honor of the Ancient Roman spring festival Floralia we invite you to an immersive evening of sensual teasing and captivating rope play, bound to whet your appetites, sharpen your senses and, eventually, satiate your innermost desires.

Time & Location

Saturday April 26,

Doors open 19u – 19u30
Antwerp, SPNKD Loft

Price

€ 250 / couple

Your greatest power in seduction is your ability to turn away, to make others come after you, delaying their satisfaction.

― Robert Greene

Please read the event description carefully to ensure you have a clear understanding of what to expect.

About

Spring has sprung and the temperatures are rising, let’s come out of hiding and heat things up, one degree at the time. For the festival of Flora, goddess of fertility and blossoming, we celebrate, Roman-style, with a night of performance and play in a lustful, pleasure-seeking atmosphere.

Whether you’re attending our other workshops this weekend or not, this guided play party is where sensory play, teasing, and ropes come together into a seductive concoction designed to tantalize all of your senses, as well as your mind.  

Tease, seduce, and feast are themes for an evening where the aim is to slowly build excitement until the tension in the air is tangible. We have all night so let’s pace ourselves and practice the fine art of flirtation and seduction, driving each other wild with desire. 

Immersive teasing session with ropes

After arriving, easing into the evening and setting intentions, we start off with a live demonstration by Ena and Roxu. 

Here you will be invited to witness and participate in a session of playful, sensual teasing, with ropes and sensory toys. This is less of a performance and more of a peek behind the curtains into our own intimate dynamic; an interplay of seduction, lust, desire, denied gratification and (occasional) fulfilment. 

Playing in front of an audience intensifies feelings of shame and humiliation, an element we surely will play with, and occasionally invite you to play along. You are therefore more than merely a viewer but an active participant in the scene that unfolds. 

This session will set the tone and hopes to provide ideas and inspire the start of a night of sensual seduction and lustful play. 

Guided play

Following their session, Roxu and Ena will lead you through a couple (2–3) guided play exercises with examples, beginning with soft, sensual teasing to warm up and start exploring your partner’s body. The heat will get turned up with the introduction of wax and ice and brought to an apex with exposure and shame play. 

Open play with prompts & Sensory Buffet

For the rest of the evening you are free to play and use the SPNKD space and all of its facilities, including five suspension points. Apart from complimentary drinks and light snacks, the scene will be set with a lush play buffet with a variety of toys from blindfolds, feathers and pinwheels to wax, ice, impact tools and more.

Note cards containing prompts and tips will be placed around the different play areas to inspire creativity and ensure that you never run out of ideas. In addition you’ll be able to discover secret challenges and games around the space, color coded to indicate their intensity level.  

This isn’t a workshop, but a free-flowing event for couples, duos and play partners looking to deepen, expand and inspire their practice. Roxu and Ena will be available throughout the evening for guidance. 

Level

Beginner friendly. No previous experience or skills needed, though we expect you to be consent informed, inclusive and mindful of others and your surroundings. 

The event is open for those without any rope experience or who do not wish to tie. We ask that anyone engaging in rope play has the appropriate training to practice safely, or otherwise asks Roxu or Ena for guidance.

Who This Is For

This party is open to all, including to all genders, sexualities and bodies—no pre-selection or application process required.

Please note

While intimacy and interaction with other couples are encouraged, this is not a swingers party. When engaging with others, always ensure clear communication and check for consent first. Respect and mutual understanding are key.

Practical

Timing

19u—19u30 Arrival and mingling (The doors close at 19u30, please be on time!)

19u30 Welcoming introduction and setting of intentions

19u45 Immersive teasing and rope session

21u Guided play with Ena & Roxu

22u15 Open play with prompts and sensory buffet

01u End of night

The Experts:


Ena Dahl

A sensualist and multidisciplinary creatrix, Ena is a conscious kink educator, author, bodyworker and rope (s)witch, and a regular teacher at Daruma and Kor in Berlin. She discovered the kink and BDSM scenes in 2017, and Shibari in 2020, through which she reconnected with her sexuality, causing her to change her career from the commercial to the sensual arts. 

With a professional background in art direction and communication design, Ena is a creative storyteller regardless of her medium, weaving narrative into her work with kink and sexuality to create content—writing, experiences, workshops and sessions—that are as immersive as they are educational. Motivated by the transformational potential of authentic self expression and the unlimited power found in connecting to our innate sexual energy, she is known for her deeply intimate and intuitive approach, emphasizing connection, observation and communication in ropes. 

Website: www.enadahl.com
Instagram: @enanna_ascends / @ena.dahl
Telegram: t.me/enadahl

Roxu

A passionate practitioner and (near-obsessive) learner since he discovered Shibari in 2016, Roxu has traveled near and far in pursuit of new knowledge and inspiration. Eventually disheartened by the lack of offers in and around his home city of Murcia, southern Spain, he went onto co-founding his own rope studio, Espacio Takibi, where he organizes jams, workshops, and study groups. 

Roxu blends influences from Aibunawa and Semenawa into a personal style that is as seductive as it is precise. Highly attuned and full of curiosity in his approach, the way he ties is a dance between technical control and erotic intensity, designed to provoke deep emotional and physical responses.

Instagram: @roxu.k / @espaciotakibi

Telegram: t.me/roxuropes

Ena and Roxu met at The European Rigger & Model Exchange (Eurix) in Berlin in the spring of 2024 where they instantly connected over a shared passion for long, drawn out teasing in (and out of) ropes. As inseparable as someone can be whilst living 2500 km apart, the pair has since been traveling across Europe to tie, give workshops and perform together. Joining us at SPNKD in April they’ll be flying in straight from attending Eurix again, this time as headlining presenters. 


FAQ

Who can attend?

This party is couples only (18+). We don’t allow singles to this event.

What about my privacy?

You are more than welcome to take pictures of yourself and your partner during the event. Please ensure that no one else is inadvertently captured in your frames without their explicit permission.

Dresscode

Dress to impress, and to undress. In celebration of Floriala, we welcome you to let the blooming of spring inspire you, perhaps to move away from the classic, all-black play party attire, but the most important is that you wear what inspires you and makes you feel sensual, sexy and empowered. Partial nudity and exposure is welcome, but not expected or required. Please note, it is pleasantly warm in our Playroom because of the floor heating.