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Where desire learns

Jij zou eens een lesje moeten leren. Dus hebben we de stoutste leraren uitgenodigd om de klus te klaren.

The best lovers are eager to learn

Duik diep in de prikkelende onderwerpen van onze vertrouwde masters of kink. Lees, leer, en verander de slaapkamer in je klaslokaal. De meest zondige studenten zullen een verdiende straf krijgen.

Now pay attention. Je erotische opvoeding begint hier. 

Ready for some naughty input?

  • Three Levels of Dominance

    Mastering the Balance Between Taking, Leading, and Deep Presence

    By Paul Meyers • 7 min read • ENGLISH

  • The Art of Slow Kink: Surrendering to the Waves of Pleasure

    In a world that rushes, true pleasure is found in the pause.

    By Paul Meyers • 5 min read • ENGLISH

  • Introducing SPNKD's Couples’ Roadmap to Erotic Growth

    This framework is more than a set of steps—it’s an invitation to embrace the essence of your relationship and unlock new dimensions of intimacy

    By Paul Meyers • 6 min read • ENGLISH

  • The Dance of Power: How a Masochist’s Smile Changed My Sadism

    A Journey of Connection, Ego, and Humility

    By Paul Meyers • 6 min read • ENGLISH

  • The Secret to Better BDSM? Slowing Down and Talking First

    The RBDSM+A Approach to Consent and Connection

    By Paul Meyers• 7 min read • ENGLISH

  • Finding My Way Through Dominance: A Journey of Trial and Error

    Different types of Masculine Dominance

    By Paul Meyers• 5 min read • ENGLISH

  • Tie Me Up to Set Me Free

    How I experience being bound and suspended in ropes

    By Ena Dahl • 7 min read • ENGLISH

  • Learning The Ropes: A Bondage Basic

    Tips and resources to start your Kinbaku journey

    By Tess Dagger • 9 min read • ENGLISH

  • Why We Love Rope

    Riggers and rope models share what Shibari means to them

    By Ena Dahl • 9 min read • ENGLISH

  • Learning The Ropes: A Bondage Basic

    Tips and resources to start your Kinbaku journey

    By Tess Dagger • 9 min read • ENGLISH

  • Learning The Ropes: A Bondage Basic

    Tips and resources to start your Kinbaku journey

    By Tess Dagger • 9 min read • ENGLISH

  • Why We Love Rope

    Riggers and rope models share what Shibari means to them

    By Ena Dahl • 9 min read • ENGLISH

  • Tie Me Up to Set Me Free

    How I experience being bound and suspended in ropes

    By Ena Dahl • 7 min read • ENGLISH

  • Why, as a Kinkster, I Married Vanilla

    When masochistic submissive and straight-and-narrow vanilla collide

    By Tess Dagger • 5 min read • ENGLISH

  • BDSM Safety 101 — A Primer

    The bare-bones basics for navigating your first scene safely, plus some peeks at considerations for more advanced play

    By Tess Dagger • 11 min read • ENGLISH

  • Is Submission an Excuse to Be Lazy in Bed?

    The active role of the ‘passive’ part in a D/s dynamic

    By Ena Dahl • 6 min read • ENGLISH

  • How To Find The 'Perfect' Play Partner?

    How, where, and what to look for – as well as a few things to watch out for

    By Ena Dahl • 8 min read • ENGLISH

  • How to Get What You Want From Scene Negotiation

    Turn the kinky pre-discussion into a successful play session

    By Tess Dagger • 9 min read • ENGLISH

  • How to Outsmart Your Dom

    Ten things (not) to say to drive your top up the wall

    By Ena Dahl • 2 min read • ENGLISH

  • The Ins and Outs of Needle Play

    Facts about this rather prickly fetish, and why it may be more approachable than you think.

    By Tess Dagger • 9 min read • ENGLISH

  • The Ego, Shame & BDSM

    Can humiliation lead to healthier egos and better mental health?

    By Ena Dahl • 7 min read

  • Your Pain, My Pleasure

    Discovering the alluring links between pleasure and pain.

    By Ena Dahl • 10 min read • ENGLISH