LOVE & POWER | WKND : The Leader & The Lover (Women Only)
Beginners
– EMBRACE –
WKND 2: The Leader is a two-day workshop on Saturday and Sunday, exclusively for women.You’ll dive into voice activation, feminine dominance, and embodied influence, using tools such as somatic practices, shadow work, and NLP.
Time & Location
Saturday October 25th & Sunday October 26th ,
Antwerp SPNKD
10u – 17u
A weekend immersion into the path of the erotic priestess — where sovereignty meets surrender, and leadership is infused with desire. Through an alchemy of voice, body, and shadow work, you’ll awaken the magnetic woman who leads with presence, loves with depth, and moves from her erotic truth.
About
Theme: SOVEREIGNTY | The Leader & The Lover This weekend is an invitation to reclaim the woman who leads with clarity, surrenders with magnetism, and expresses her power with coherence rather than control.
Over two days, you’ll explore both The Leader and The Lover archetypes:
The Lover — erotic surrender, soft power, and magnetism; through somatic and intuitive practices, you’ll return to your body, desire, and self-trust.
The Leader — feminine dominance and influence, with tools like shadow work, NLP, and somatic practices to rewire your relationship with voice, leadership, and self-worth.
Together, they open the path of the erotic priestess: • Sexual sovereignty — cultivating exquisite experiences of surrender for yourself & others • Feminine authority — leading with humble confidence & savage willingness • Masculine reconciliation — forgiveness & integration with men and the masculine within • Erotic expression — awakening desire & riding the current of creative impulse • Shadow integration — transforming fear into embodied trust • Somatic tools — staying grounded & magnetic under pressure
This is a space for women ready to embody the fullness of their erotic current, to trust themselves, reconcile with the masculine, and discover how power can feel like pleasure when it comes from the body. Held by an ex-dominatrix & healer, this weekend reveals what it truly means to evoke sovereignty, devotion, and intimacy in and out of the bedroom.
It’s a space to reconcile with the masculine within, to meet your hunger without apology, and to remember: Power gets to feel like pleasure, when it comes from the body.
Discover
Over two days, you’ll step into your erotic authority through a multidisciplinary blend of embodiment, NLP, and shadow integration. This weekend is about claiming your inner leader, not through dominance over others, but through clarity, coherence, and unapologetic self-trust.
You’ll explore:
Embodied Confidence & Self-Worth Codes Learn to lead from your body, not your performance. Rewire patterns of self-doubt and root into unshakeable internal safety.
Voice Activation & Erotic Expression Liberate your voice as a channel for truth, desire, and influence, spoken and unspoken. Practice expressing power without armouring.
Feminine Dominance & Desire-Led Leadership Step into your capacity to choose, lead, and guide, from a place of magnetism, not manipulation.
Shadow Work & Energetic Boundaries Meet the unconscious stories you carry around power, control, visibility, and success. Transmute them into embodied clarity.
Somatic Tools for Influence & Impact Access tools to stay grounded and persuasive under pressure. Learn to hold erotic tension, lead relational dynamics, and remain open while being seen.
This is not about fitting into a version of leadership that was never made for you. This is about becoming the woman who moves her life from her own frequency and trusts herself when she gets there.
Who This Is For
This weekend is for women who are ready to lead; not from hustle, control, or perfection, but from embodied knowing, erotic clarity, and deep-rooted self-trust.
It’s for you if:
You feel the edge of your own power and you’re ready to stop diluting it
You want to speak your truth without freezing, collapsing, or armouring up
You’re curious about feminine dominance, erotic leadership, or owning desire unapologetically
You’ve outgrown self-doubt, shrinking, and people-pleasing—but don’t want to harden to lead
You’re ready to integrate your voice, your boundaries, and your pleasure into your presence
If you’re ready to be the woman who speaks what she wants and stands where she is, this weekend is for you. Come as you are. Lead from there.
The Facilitator: Melissa Maya
Melisa Maya is a Poetess, Creative Director and Mentor exploring the intersections of power, Intimacy and the sacred.
With over eleven years of experience in producing intimate experiences and training for women in feminine leadership; drawing from her lived, embodied experiences as a professional dominatrix, bodyworker and Performance Artist – she is a seasoned space-holder who believes in the power of Eros as the ultimate teacher.
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Structure & Guidelines
This is a guided, immersive weekend designed to support depth, safety, and real embodiment, without rush, overwhelm, or pressure.
You’ll be held inside a clear, feminine structure across both days. Each day combines somatic practices, voice activation, shadow work, and guided NLP-based tools to help you access clarity, confidence, and personal power.
Timing:
Saturday 10:00–13:00: Morning Workshop 13:00–14:00: Lunch (included) 14:00–17:00: Afternoon Workshop 17:30: End of Day
Sunday 10:00–13:00: Morning Workshop 13:00–14:00: Lunch (included) 14:00–17:00: Afternoon Workshop 17:30: End of Day
Throughout the weekend, you’ll move between somatic practices, erotic embodiment, group ritual, and solo exploration. Everything is guided, everything is optional, and your boundaries are sacred.
This is a women-only, sober, and phone-free space. You are never expected to participate in a way that doesn’t feel aligned. You are always in choice. This is a space where your “no” is honoured, your “yes” is celebrated, and your unfolding happens at your pace.
This weekend will be held in english
Dresscode
This is a ritual space. Dress like you’re arriving for yourself.
We invite you to wear what helps you feel most sensual, grounded, and true in your body, whether that’s silk, lace, soft layers, sheer fabric, ritual wear, or simply bare skin beneath a robe.
This is not about looking a certain way. It’s about adorning the version of the feminine you’re here to meet.
Think:
Clothing you can move, lie down, and breathe in
Items that feel ceremonial, intentional, or devotional
Nothing that distracts or restricts—leave streetwear behind
Nudity is permitted but never expected. Comfort and sovereignty come first.
FAQ
What is NLP and how is it used here?
NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) is a set of tools to help you shift unconscious beliefs, language patterns, and self-perception. In this weekend, it’s used alongside embodiment and shadow work to support nervous system regulation, boundary-setting, voice activation, and inner confidence. No prior experience is needed.
Is this a sexual or explicit weekend?
No. While we work with erotic energy and sensual embodiment, this is not a sexual play space. There’s no nudity, and any exploration is guided, clothed, and internal or energetic in nature. The focus is on power, not performance.
Is food included?
Yes, a nourishing lunch is included both days. We’ll collect dietary preferences in advance.
What should I wear or bring?
Wear something you feel strong, sensual, and free to move in. Think: breathable fabrics, ritual layers, bold softness. Bring a journal, water bottle, and anything else that helps you feel anchored (like a shawl or small altar item). More guidance will be shared closer to the date.
What if I feel overwhelmed or emotional during the weekend?
That’s welcome. This space honours your full spectrum—softness, rage, grief, pleasure. There is time and space built in for integration, and you’re always encouraged to take breaks, pause, or step back when needed.
Will I be touched by others?
Only if you choose to. Any partnered practices are consent-based, optional, and clearly facilitated. You’ll always have the choice to participate, modify, or observe. Your boundaries will be deeply respected.