– EMBRACE – – PLAY – – UNLEASH –
For couples seeking to reignite passion, deepen trust, and explore their erotic edges in a safe, luxurious space. This immersive retreat offers guided intimacy practices, playful kink exploration, and soulful connection in an exclusive setting designed for transformation
Time & Location
Thursday November 6, 19u – Sunday November 8th 12u
Secret Location – 20min drive from Antwerp
Are you and your partner ready to reignite your erotic connection, deepen trust, and step into delicious new territory—without the need to stay overnight?
From Thursday, November 6 to Sunday, November 9, you’re invited to join the SPNKD Couples Retreat as an Immersion Couple. This immersive 3-day experience takes place in a stunning heritage estate tucked into protected nature, just 20 minutes from Antwerp.
As an Immersion couple, you’ll have full access to all workshops, Lunch & Dinner, and curated evening events, returning to your own accommodation each night. It’s the perfect opportunity to dive deep into erotic exploration while maintaining your preferred level of privacy and rest.
Discover
This retreat is built on the Erotic Intimacy Framework—a powerful path to deepen desire, communication, and connection between couples. Your days will be rich with:
Sensual & Transformational Workshops
Intimacy Foundations: Breath, body presence, and polarity practices.
Erotic Communication: Learn to speak your desires and negotiate limits.
BDSM Play & Power Dynamics: Ropes, sensation play, impact, control.
Role Play & Erotic Archetypes: Explore the many selves inside you.
Advanced Scene Crafting: Create powerful erotic rituals together.
Saturday Play Party: A guided space to explore desire with presence and creativity.
Optional Erotic Hypnosis: Deepen into surrender and subconscious connection.
Beautifully Curated Setting
Private attic workshop space & candlelit salons
High-quality, nourishing meals included
Situated on private grounds, surrounded by forest & protected nature
This journey is guided by Paul, alongside a curated circle of guest teachers and performers—embodied artists of pleasure, presence, and play. From sultry guidance to provocative expression, each brings a unique pulse to the retreat, inviting you to surrender deeper into your desires, your power, and the delicious unknown.
Workshops are always optional—but every one is crafted to inspire, awaken, and seduce your connection.
For who?
This retreat is ideal for couples who seek powerful erotic exploration by day, and the comfort of returning to their own space by night. You’re a fit if you:
Crave deeper erotic connection and emotional intimacy
Are curious about kink, tantra, or sensual ritual in a welcoming, kink-positive setting
Prefer to sleep off-site but still want access to the full retreat program
Value clear boundaries, enthusiastic consent, and transformative connection
Are open to learning, growing, and playing in a respectful, curated space
No matter your experience level—whether you’re dipping your toes into desire or already exploring your sensual depths—this retreat will offer insight, inspiration, and community.
All couples and constellations are welcome. Just bring your curiosity and a willingness to explore.
The Master of Ceremonies: Paul
Meet Paul Meyers, a passionate guide in the world of Erotic Intimacy and the visionary behind SPNKD—a sanctuary for couples and individuals seeking to deepen their connection, awaken hidden desires, and explore intimacy with confidence.
With years of experience in coaching and facilitating, Paul has helped countless people reconnect, communicate, and unlock their erotic potential. His approach is far more than techniques or surface-level skills; he dives deep into the psychology of desire, the dynamics of attraction, and the art of seduction—all in a way that feels organic, exciting, and liberating.
His transformative workshops and coaching sessions are designed to peel back the layers of conditioning, shame, and hesitation that often hold people back from fully embracing their erotic selves. Whether it’s guiding couples to rediscover intimacy, helping Dominants and submissives fine-tune their connection, or assisting individuals in understanding their personal desires, Paul’s work is always centered on authenticity, trust, and self-expression.
At SPNKD and beyond, Paul is not just teaching—he’s inviting you on a journey to experience intimacy in ways you never imagined.
SATURDAY: Depth & Desire 10:00–13:00 — Tantric Touch & Role Play 13:00–15:00 — Lunch & Integration 15:00–18:00 — Advanced Power Play & Open Space 19:30–21:30 — Dinner 21:30–22:00 — Play Party Exploration & Departure
Note: Return home each night for private rest and recharging.
FAQ
💬 Is this suitable for beginners or more experienced couples? Yes. Whether you’re just starting to explore or already have some experience with kink or erotic practices, you’ll find plenty of guidance, inspiration, and depth. All sessions are optional, fully consent-based, and designed to meet you where you are.
💬 Do we have to join every session? Not at all. Every workshop and activity is optional. You’re encouraged to follow your curiosity and honor your boundaries.
💬 Is nudity or sexual interaction expected? Only with your full, enthusiastic consent. All practices are clearly guided, and you choose what feels right for you.
💬 Are meals included? Yes—lunch and dinner are fully included for all three days.
💬 Will we miss anything as external guests? You’ll receive full access to all workshops and events. The only difference is that you’ll sleep off-site.
💬 What’s the investment? – Immersion Couple (Day Guest Access): €1,600 This includes: ✔️ Full access Thursday–Sunday ✔️ All workshops ✔️ All lunches and dinners ✔️ Erotic Dinner Performance & Play Party ✔️ Intimate, high-touch experience with only 12 couples total
Come Curious. Leave Transformed.
This isn’t just a weekend away—it’s a sacred, sexy invitation to rediscover each other. To speak your desires. To explore new edges. To be held, witnessed, and turned on—in every sense of the word.