This workshop is for couples at the beginning of their rope journey who wish to explore the erotic side of practice.
Saturday May 11, 12:00 – 18:00
Antwerp, SPNKD Loft
€ 150 / per couple
This workshop will introduce basic Shibari skills, revealing the intimate connection between desire and empathy. We will explore the unveiling of one’s true erotic self through the acts of undressing and teasing.
The session will provide fundamental rope techniques to restrict and understand your partner’s body in a new light. The themes of tenderness and objectification will be carefully balanced, demonstrating how these contrasting elements can coexist in Shibari.
We will delve into the fantasy of Shibari and embark on a historical journey to comprehend its erotic history. This will enrich the context for your personal Shibari exploration and inspire your play sessions.
Participants will practice the acquired techniques on each other, embodying the emotional spectrum of Shibari and developing personal erotic narratives throughout the journey.
Join us in the enthralling journey of connection and intensity led by the expertise of Conor Aphilia, a London-based Rope Professional and Instructor. Eveline, the model, has immersed herself in the intricacies of the craft for the past four years, actively contributing to the scene for a total of six. Her journey is driven by a profound exploration of sensuality, shame, and the delicate balance between pleasure and pain.
Nudity and erotic touch will be encouraged at this workshop, but there are never any expectations. Couples will have plenty of space to indulge in their own personal erotic bubbles.
During the workshop Conor will cover the following topics:
Learn to devise intentional and imaginative sessions that express your desires and appreciate the beauty of the human form. Understand the mental and emotional facets of rope play, creating an ambiance that allows both partners to explore and connect on a deeper level.
Discover ways to use rope to make your partners feel vulnerable, valued, and sexually desired. The positions and the manner of applying rope can highlight the model’s sexuality and helplessness when bound in rope.
Rope enables us to immerse in fantasy and share moments of romance and tenderness. Embrace and celebrate the unique beauty of each partner’s body, fostering a positive and empowering experience within the workshop. Master the use of ropes to position your partner in ways that foster connection and enhance the intimacy of the session.
A key theme of our workshop is ‘listening’. We will highlight the importance of respecting your partner by paying attention to their needs, desires, and boundaries. We believe that true intimacy involves understanding one’s vulnerabilities as well as strengths, and such intimacy is to be earned, not expected.
12u – 12u30 Arrival
12u30 – 14u30 Class
14u30 – 15u Break
15u00 – 17u Class
17u30 – post workshop social
18u – end of workshop
Conor Aphilia began his Kink Journey in 2014 upon arriving in London. His exploration of the city’s erotic underground led him to organize events and community groups, immersing himself in the nuances of the kink scene. The introduction of Rope in 2016 brought a profound shift, mending Conor’s relationship with intimacy and revealing the positive impact of physicality and sensuality.
Informed by the techniques and aesthetics of Japanese masters, Conor’s inclusive style, developed over years of study, welcomes individuals of all backgrounds. His unique blend of Western and Eastern perspectives, influenced by a background in design, shapes an evolving approach to Rope, creating an environment that transcends boundaries and celebrates diversity in the exploration of sensuality and connection.
Instagram: @cnr.aphilia
Website: Conor Aphilia
Dress to Undress. This workshop is an opportunity to feel seen. An intentional and erotic space where desire reigns supreme. We suggest a light summer dress that can be removed to reveal Lingerie that makes you feel empowered. For men, a buttoned shirt, Loose slacks will work just fine.
You have the freedom to choose attire that resonates with you and feels comfortable, although for practical reasons, it’s advisable to steer clear of anything too strappy, fussy, or restrictiveIf in doubt, yoga clothes can serve as a practical and comfortable default option. – It is pleasantly warm in our Playroom because of the floor heating.
Ropes are available to purchase during the evening.