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For couples who want to slow down, reconnect, and learn how to pour into each other – without pressure, without agenda.
Thursday May 22,
19:00 – 22:00
Berlin, Studio Stellar
€ 150 / couple
This workshop is open to all sexes, genders, and orientations, in any role that feels aligned. Read “he” and “she” as starting points, not requirements.
Most partners would love to be more sensual with each other. The willingness is there. But men often won’t give their partner a massage, for two reasons.
First, they don’t know how. Fair enough – but with very little knowledge, you can do wonders. Second, they don’t know how to give. To give without expecting something in return or without getting carried away.
When you’re giving a massage, you are serving your partner’s pleasure. Desire, arousal, and lust will arise. The practice is to hold space for her, and to keep pouring into her, without taking from her.
The rest is technique, and honestly, it flows naturally once you have the basics. This workshop is an invitation back into touch – slow, attentive, and unhurried. You’ll learn how to give a good massage, and how to stay present to the person under your hands.
A note on language: this workshop uses gendered framing because Alexandre’s teaching in this workshop is shaped around helping men learn to hold space for their female partners – to give without a goal in mind.
Through guided exercises and live demonstrations, you’ll explore:
You’ll leave with a small set of skills you can keep practicing at home, and a renewed sense of how good it feels to slow down together.
This workshop is especially valuable for those who want to learn to give without an agenda – to pour into their partner without taking anything back and to hold space for their pleasure as something complete in itself.
It’s for couples who:
All sexes, genders, and orientations are welcome, in whichever role feels aligned. No prior experience needed.
Berlin-based French kisser, Alexandre Dandelion is a multi-facetted practitioner and facilitator who has been devoted to touch for as long as he can remember. A trained physiotherapist, he now gives original 1:1 bodywork sessions of abdominal massage (chi nei tsang) and integral massage – his own blend of tantra and sensual kink. He is also a breathwork facilitator.
Comfort is the priority. If you’ll be receiving the massage, access to the skin matters – underwear is ideal. The space is heated, and blankets are available for partial coverage if you prefer.
If you’ll be giving the massage, wear something light and easy to move in. Bring layers for warmth between exercises.Bring your bodies, your hands, and a sarong. Oil will be provided.
Wear comfortable clothing that allows you to move freely. The focus is on learning, experience, and creative expression – not on erotic performance. Clothes stay on at all times.
What should we wear?
Something light and comfortable. See the dresscode above for details on giving and receiving.
Is this workshop suitable for complete beginners?
Yes. This class is designed for beginners with no previous experience. All you need is openness, clear communication with your partner, and a willingness to learn.
Is there a changing room?
Yes. You can change in one of the two bathrooms or in a designated changing room next to the workshop space.
Is there parking nearby?
Yes, there’s paid street parking directly outside and the smaller crossing streets nearby. Finding available spots might take some time, so please arrive in good time if you’re coming by car. The venue is easily accessible via Ubahns U8 to Schönleinstraße (5 minute walk) or U7 to Südstern (10 minute walk) or with the M41 Bus to Graefestraße.
Can we ask questions before the event?
Of course. For any last-minute questions, email us at ena@spnkd.com and our team will respond promptly.
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