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Temple night: A guided sensual evening (Single Men)


For Lovers & Rulers

– EMBRACE –
For indivuduals who crave deeper connection, playful exploration, and unapologetic intimacy. This is your night to step beyond the expected and discover new ways to touch, tease, and connect.

Time & Location

Saturday November 1,

Doors open 19u30 – 20u
Antwerp, SPNKD Loft

Price

€ 100 / person

A night of connection, conscious sensuality, and unapologetic play

This exclusive guided evening is designed for 26 guests, tickets are sold per person, and the experience is open to both couples and singles who feel the pull to step beyond the ordinary. 

As a single man, you are invited to apply. Send us a short introduction about who you are and why you feel called to join this Temple Night, along with a photo that reflects you authentically.

This event is not about performance. It’s about presence. If you are someone who values consent, communication, curiosity, and respect, plus you’re excited to step into a sensual space held with integrity, we would love to receive your application! 

Why We Curate? 

This isn’t about exclusion, it’s about honouring the energy of the space. This Temple Night is intentionally crafted to feel safe, expansive, and erotically alive for everyone present: couples, women, and men. 

This is not a test you need to pass. It’s an invitation to step into a space where emotional presence, self-awareness, and conscious desire matter. You don’t need to be experienced in this kind of evening. What matters most is that you’re open to learning, to listening, and to showing up with grounded curiosity.

What to expect

A curated, intimate playground divided into distinct zones — each designed to spark curiosity, awaken sensation, and inspire connection. 

Think:

  • A massage corner where multiple hands weave pleasure across skin.  
  • A shibari and rope play area for those drawn to the art of tension and release.  
  • A voyeur’s space for those who crave the thrill of watching and being watched.  

Each area comes with clear guidelines, sensual games, and optional guided exercises — always centered around consent, communication, and conscious play.

Throughout the night, you’ll be invited to move through the spaces at your own rhythm, encouraged to stretch your edges while honouring your boundaries.

Timings

19u30 — Doors open, take your time to settle in and feel the room  

20u00 — Doors close, the world outside stays outside  

20u15 — Welcoming introduction: meet your hosts, the space, and each other  

20u30 — Collective exercises to warm up the room and awaken your senses  

21u00 — Guided experiences with your partner or others to deepen connection and spark curiosity  

22u00 — Free play in the temple space: explore, watch, touch, tease, or simply be  

00u30 — Closing circle to ground, share reflections, and seal the night

The doors open at 19u30 and close at 20u Please be on time. Lynn & Kris will begin their sensual guidance at 20u15, leading the experience until the night’s close at 00u30.

Structure & Guidelines

While intimacy and sensual interaction with others is encouraged, this is not a swingers party.  This is an evening of creative, conscious, and playful exploration.  

non-penetration rule will be in place throughout the night, let’s get creative! All interaction is based on clear communication, enthusiastic consent, and mutual respect. 

To support this, we’ve set up a Mandatory pre-party call on Tuesday 21st of October from 19u – 20u — an online gathering for all guests prior to the event. This is your opportunity to ask questions, meet your hosts, and receive a clear introduction around consent, boundaries, and the structure of the night.

This is a substance free event. We will not serve alcohol during this evening

Who This Is For

Temple Night is designed for both couples and singles who are ready to explore conscious sensuality in a held, guided setting. Whether you’re just beginning to explore erotic spaces or you’ve danced in temple settings before, you’re welcome here.

This evening is crafted to be beginner-friendly while offering rich layers for those with more experience in embodied, erotic, and energetic practices.

To attend Temple Night, we ask that all guests, including those new to this kind of experience, come with a few essentials in place:

  • A clear understanding of consent, including how to give and receive a “no” without shame or pressure
  • The ability to name and honour your boundaries, and respect those of others
  • A basic level of self-awareness around your emotions, desires, and triggers in intimate or sensual environments– A sense of self-responsibility in group dynamics, knowing when to engage, when to pause, and when to ask for support.

This night is not about how much you know, it’s about how you show up. Lynn & Kris are there to guide you. If you can meet the space with openness and respect, you’ll be deeply supported and invited into a night of connection, discovery, and unforgettable pleasure.

Dresscode

Dress to impress in a way that makes you feel confident, sensual, and ready to play. Halfway through the night will be a moment to change outfits in case you’d desire to.


The Guides: Lynn & Kris


It’s Lynn’s passion to create spaces where guests can play with their sensual expression. Due to her background in Shibari, bodywork, tantra, and sensual movement, Lynn brings her signature charm and expertise to create a night filled with discovery and connection. Her warm and engaging style ensures couples feel both supported and inspired as they explore their dynamic together.

Kris brings years of experience in facilitating therapeutic spaces and communication training. With a specialisation in (erotic) breathwork, as well as extensive experience in men’s work, bodywork, and tantra, Kris guides couples into deeper intimacy and self-discovery. His grounded and intuitive approach ensures that everyone feels encouraged, valued, and enriched as they explore new dimensions of their relationship.


FAQ

Who can attend?

This party is open to couples and singles (21+).

What about my privacy?

We understand the vulnerability it takes to step into a space like this and we’re committed to creating an environment where you can fully relax and be yourself, knowing your privacy is respected. Our guest list is closed and not shared publicly. If you’re concerned about encountering someone specific, you’re welcome to reach out in advance, we’ll do our best to support clarity and comfort.

No photos are allowed in the main studio or play area. If you’d like to capture your outfit or mark a personal moment, you’re welcome to do so discreetly in the bathroom area. We ask that phones remain on silent and out of sight for the duration of the evening unless briefly used for photos in the designated space.

This is your night and we take care to protect the sacredness of your experience.

Do we have to interact with other couples, or can we just stay together?

Temple Night is a space of shared exploration but never of expectation. If you’re attending solo, we invite you to arrive with an open mind and a willingness to connect, even if that simply means a meaningful conversation, eye contact, or shared presence in a guided exercise. Whether you’re a couple or a single guest, how you move through the evening is entirely up to you. Some choose to stay close as a pair, others feel called to interact, play, or witness. All of it is welcome.

What if we’ve never been to a night like this before? Is it beginner-friendly?

Absolutely. This evening is designed to be accessible and welcoming for both complete beginners and experienced couples. The guided exercises, warm introductions, and clear structure help ease you into the experience. You’ll be supported to discover what feels good for you, without pressure.

What does ‘no penetration’ mean in practice?

This rule means that while sensual and intimate touch is welcome (always with consent), acts of penetration — oral, vaginal, anal, or otherwise — are not part of this evening’s structure. This boundary ensures a shared sense of safety and allows for creative, conscious, and playful connection beyond conventional scripts.

How do you handle consent and boundaries during the night?

Consent is woven into every aspect of the evening. Each guided exercise and play area includes clear guidelines and verbal check-ins. The pre-event call will also cover how to navigate boundaries, give and receive a “no,” and communicate desires. You’ll be encouraged to pause, check in, and adjust at any time — your voice and comfort are always prioritised.

Why is this a substance-free event?

To maintain a space of conscious, clear, and connected play, this event is entirely substance-free. No alcohol or recreational substances are permitted before or during the night. This ensures that consent, boundaries, and communication remain fully present and intentional for everyone involved.

Can we arrive after the doors close at 20u00?

No — to preserve the intimacy and container of the evening, doors will close promptly at 20u00. Late arrivals won’t be admitted, so please plan to arrive between 19u30 and 20u00 to settle in.