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Uncover the reasons behind your attraction to the Dominant role, explore how to channel this into impactful sessions, and learn practical skills to support and enhance your journey.
Day 1: Sunday May 17th,
Day 2: Sunday June 14th,
Day 3: Sunday June 27th,
13:00 – 17:00
Antwerp, SPNKD Loft
€ 600/ Person for all three days
For Men Only
A deep shift in how you lead, desire and embody your masculine power.
Most men feel the desire to lead with confidence, to be a grounded presence that others trust instinctively. But without inner structure, dominance becomes performance, insecurity, or ego. This masterclass gives you the tools, practices and embodied experience to transform that.
Across three immersive days you will explore your masculine identity, train your nervous system, practice real dominance and learn to create erotic tension with clarity and integrity. This is not theory. This is initiation.
When booking your workshop, you’ll be directed to a page where you can pay for all three days in one transaction.
Where the mask drops and the real man steps forward.
Day 1 is a deep exploration of your masculinity. You look at the version you inherited, the one you still perform and the part you never show. Through guided reflection, group sharing and practical grounding work, you discover why your leadership collapses and how to rebuild strength from within.
You will:
Men walk out of Day 1 more rooted, clearer and far more honest with themselves.
Meet Paul Meyers, founder of SPNKD and one of the rare men who teaches BDSM from the inside out. SPNKD has become a home for desire, a place where lovers step into luxurious lofts, sensual aesthetics and experiences that elevate their intimacy. Paul created SPNKD with one intention. To give people the freedom to explore their desires with intelligence, beauty and emotional depth.
Over the past five years Paul has shaped SPNKD into a reference point in the European BDSM scene. Not through shock value or theatrics but through refinement, presence and a deep understanding of human desire. His teaching goes far beyond techniques. Paul guides people into the psychology behind dominance and submission, the inner motivations that pull us toward kink and the emotional architecture that makes BDSM powerful, erotic and transformative.
His workshops are not performances. They are invitations to look inward. To understand what drives you. To explore how you love, lead and surrender. Paul teaches couples how to build sensual connections that feel safe and electric. He teaches men how to embody real dominance without ego. His work is about clarity, honesty and personal growth in a world where desire becomes art.
When you learn from Paul you do not just learn BDSM. You learn yourself.
To foster an environment of respect and focus, we ask that all participants dress in smart casual attire, with the option to incorporate elements that resonate with your Dominant persona.
Your enrollment covers all workshop materials, healthy snacks throughout the afternoon, and complimentary drinks.
Interested in the best handmade SPNKD ropes? We have beautiful Shibari rope sets. Take a look at our webshop, or buy sets directly at our workshop.