SPNKD Private Play Party

For Lovers & Rulers

The setting will be divine. The company will be sexy (and carefully handpicked by us). And the pleasure will be overflowing.

Time & Location

Friday June 9,

Doors open 20:30 – 21:30
Antwerp, SPNKD Loft


€ 200 / couple

We invite your filthiest selves to put on the finest lingerie and most elegant suits. Meet like-minded lovers who will inspire you with their twisted games. And prepare for an unforgettable night of erotic freedom and fantasy, with utmost discretion assured.

Pure luxury. Pure privacy. Pure desire.
A Private Play Party, pure SPNKD style.

Limited to eight couples only. Strictly by invitation.

Let’s engage in some breath-taking breathplay—where every gasp counts!

As part of our unwavering dedication to safety and boundless exploration, we proudly present an exclusive beginners workshop on breathplay during this play party. Brace yourself for an intense dive into the depths of sensual satisfaction, where you’ll gain vital knowledge and masterful techniques to ensure a consensual and mind-blowing breathplay experience for all participants. Taught by @Bas_b (on FetLife)/ @Bas_b_projects (On Instagram).

The Teacher: Bas

We aim to give you the tools, the security, the techniques and the insight to adept breath play through strangulation to you own liking. It’s been around for almost 10 years now and never once do I get tired of teaching this class. – Bas

“My expertise in strangulation comes from extensive knowledge of Ju Jutsu, Brazilian Ju Jutsu and MMA. I dabble in Judo as well. After 20 years of experience with strangulation in a martial arts setting, I started to incorporate it in my BDSM play as well and have had a whole bunch of fun practicing this with my partners.” (Source: Fetlife)


Why do you select guests?

Isn’t it great if a party feels just right? We only allow 8 couples to join us to keep the party intimate and sensual. Due to the limited number of places, we have no choice but to make a selection. We make sure that we connect people with the same mindset. We make an exciting mix of people with more experience and people with less experience in BDSM.

Every group is different, if you are not selected for one party it does not mean you are not suitable for other SPNKD parties.

What to wear?

Dress like a Lover or a Ruler. When entering the world of SPNKD you need to dress to impress. Think classy & sexy,  lingerie & suits. Add as much kink as you want. Tempting textures like satin, leather, lace or latex. Express yourself. Whether in a gorgeous dress or a sleek suit, wear something that makes you feel seductive.

What will happen?

What happens at SPNKD stays at SPNKD…

All you need to know is, from 10 pm onwards, our exclusive venue will be the playground of your most decadent fantasies as the night plays out the way you want it to. Are you excited to come and play?

Our parties have no obligation to do anything you don’t want to do, so go at your own pace and enjoy. If you prefer to chill out, enjoy the view or have a drink, that’s fine. 

Who can attend?

This party is couples only (18+). We don’t allow singles to this event.

What about my privacy?

Discretion is key at SPNKD. We want you to feel secure in the knowledge that we have measures in place to ensure that you can relax and enjoy your evening with us. Our final guest list will be closed to ensure maximum discretion for all attendees. You can ask if specific people will join to avoid awkward encounters. It’s strictly forbidden to take pictures at a SPNKD party.